I just sometimes lose hope in finding someone special. That deserves all of my love, and who would love me back. Does anyone have advice to get the hope back, for a new love?
2006-11-20 06:31:05 · 9 answers · asked by Crazy Heart 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i believe everybody has a soulmate....... you will find yours when the time is right....
2006-11-20 06:33:38 · answer #1 · answered by myheartisjames 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I ask myself that question everyday. But you know what? Life is about risk. You take a risk to have fun knowing it could be dangerous. You take a risk of learning knowing that what you will learn could be scarce. You take a risk to love someone knowing that they may not love you back. But there is someone out there for everybody. Everyday when I pass by a guy my age I look at him very close and ask could it be him? Then move on. I don't know who my soul mate is and you don't know yours but you should know that out there in the world someone is looking for you. I believe that but I have a long way to go before I find my soul mate because I am only a freshmen in high school. And you know what you have a long way to go too. There is always something that completes another thing. Pedals complete a flower. Leaves complete a tree. A human completes a dog. But do you know what completes a human? Another human. Every person in the world has to be completed. So just think of it like that.
Hope I helped.
2006-11-20 14:39:45 · answer #2 · answered by halouno 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take time to figure out who you really are and what you really want and need... write it down (everything) then scratch off everything that depends on out of your hands kind of wants/needs.
example: I want a soulmate
someone to love me
someone i can trust
to be happy when i wake up everyday
-what will make you happy
material things
personal things
unreasonable things
and petty things (to have a pretty pink scarf..or whatever)
everything! even future plans..
seriously scrath off things that require someone else.
Now take that list and add importance and how long it would take to acomplish or obtain. Start with small things and work your way up.. add and take from your list. This should slowly build up your hope.. not for love in particular but for being happy. eventually you should realize the truth that you really dont need someone to be happy. embrace your love as positive energy and do what you want with your life.
soulmates just happen and you probably have many out there that you will never ever meet, but one maybe 2 who you will and will share all that is special to you.
2006-11-20 15:35:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey it just takes time.. I have lost hope a few times but then every once in a while you see a glimmer of hope at the end of the tunnel. the best way to look at it is that your so wonderful and so perfect god is having to work extra hard on your soul mate to make him just as perfect as you! and those are not easy shoes to fill! Not just anyone will do its got to be the BEST!
2006-11-20 14:36:01 · answer #4 · answered by crazy b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Darling ,
I really understand you , coz i was just like you are now .
at nights i broken down and cried and sometimes i didn't know why . My loneliness was driving me insane.My broken heart feeling lonely . i knew everything heals in time But can time heal my lonely heart?But i did believe there is another lonely heart out there waiting for me.my soul mate , my best friend my only and one .Then i found him and i always thank god to have him in my life .
Now, I know there is a special warm home with him, And he is always with me ;When i need him,We share our love, and pass the fear.So there is nothing to worry about.
Love can’t be explained,and can’t be controlled , some times it hurts and some times it helps , Once day it’s warm , Next day it’s cold BUT I WANT TO HAVE HIS LOVE , am nothing with out loving him. am alive because am in love with the sweetest man in the world .
And dear am sure you will find your soul mate , You just need to be patient.JUST FALL IN LOVE WITH A RIGHT MAN.
Good Luck
2006-11-20 14:45:49 · answer #5 · answered by sweetie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel but you gotta hang in there if a guy dosn't like you he is missing out and isn't worthy just take you time and don't act pathetic one day you will find that special someone just keep trying don't give up so easily youll go through bout a 1 million guys and break many hearts but youll find him and won't let him go and he won't let you go.
2006-11-20 14:36:51 · answer #6 · answered by Bobbie Sue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's just your imagination, just make the most of yourself and be a nice person, sooner or later you'll find him
2006-11-20 14:33:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you wake up each day. take everyday as it comes life can be hard but you have to be strong
2006-11-20 14:34:22 · answer #8 · answered by me and you 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im right here look no more
2006-11-20 14:35:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋