My boyfriend wants to get back to together with me, and he dumped me about 2 weeks ago. He tells me how much he's in love with me and everything like that. I mean, yeah I'm in love with him after 2 years of relationship. I mean I'm only 16 and I'm not sure if I want to get into a serious relationship. What should I do? I want to be with him, but I don't, because we always fight on the phone everytime we talk. And we never fight in public. Does that mean something? PLEASE HELP!!
2006-11-20 06:29:28 · 13 answers · asked by Brystle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you're right: don't get into a serious relationship, especially with a boy who dumped you and fights with you over the phone. You're only 16- time to focus on your studies, hobbies, goals, friends, family, and deciding what you want to do with your life. A boyfriend who causes you emotional drama is going to take up too much of your time... time you should use to work towards knowing yourself and what you want to do in life.
2006-11-20 06:32:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now, the thing is that you are very young and there is absolutely no need for you to rush into any kind of serious commitment with a boy at this stage.It probably does mean something that you fight on the phone all the time ...it means that you don't get on well together!!!
there are lots and lots of nice fun boys out there for you to hang out with ...so drop this fellow and get out and have fun!
And maybe down the track you may meet up again but in the mean time get out and about and most of all have the fun that a young girl like you should be having!
2006-11-20 14:36:47 · answer #2 · answered by superf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense, sweetie but I don't think you're ready for a serious relationship. It sounds like you don't know what to do with this one. Maybe you should concentrate on developing other interests and wait til you're ready for a boyfriend. You should be your own person so that you have something to offer another person. Trust that you're just not ready yet!
2006-11-20 14:34:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ambivalence is giving you the answer, which is that although you may love a person you don't necessarily LIKE them, especially when you argue most of the time. Unless both of you are committed to compromise and working out your differences rather than arguing, it's doubtful you will enjoy being together.
2006-11-20 14:34:02 · answer #4 · answered by Nefertiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did he break up with u? u shouldn't be in a serious relationship right now. If he is always fighting with u, u don't need to be with him.
2006-11-20 14:50:15 · answer #5 · answered by BaBy_GiRL_07 =) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should hear him out and talk to him and if you don't want 2 be in a serious relationship then tell him that and tell him but there is still a chance for us but just not right now and just keep it at that but don't totally ignore him because Ur just letting him get to you and that isn't good OK good luck Hun
2006-11-20 14:36:36 · answer #6 · answered by princess_flava14 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby Girl leave him alone your 16 you don't have to deal with that typ of crap you have your whole life to be married. Have fun now and forget him, there are plenty of boys to be with and your pretty enough to get with any of them. Always remember that your beautiful and you can have anyone you want. Never settle
2006-11-20 14:35:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 16 - tell him to bite the big one and move on - you will have many other relationships before you finally settle on the right one
2006-11-20 14:34:40 · answer #8 · answered by Mad Marvin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you get back together with him, take enough time for you to breathe and ask yourself, are YOU going to be happy. And besides, girl you're 16, use this time to go out with the girls!Shopping!!!
2006-11-20 14:38:49 · answer #9 · answered by Kay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 16. your not in love. get a new boyfriend.
2006-11-20 14:34:42 · answer #10 · answered by 10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋