keep apologizing to my bf about things i did in the past but he doesn't seem too forgiving and i understand. but i think it's unfair him to take 3 days to think about what he should do about us while i'm forced with the stress of having to wait for my bf to possibly to break up with me. advice? how can i truly prove to him that i'm willing to commit?
2006-11-20 06:21:28 · 16 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to him, i'm still too attached to my single life whilst i'm around my single friends. also he feels sexually frustrated because while his friends get oral sex and hand jobs from their gf, i refuse to do either. and i believe that he is playing a game. i didn't cheat on him...as i see it. in the beginning of our relationship i was frustrated over him waiting a month to finally ask me out so i kissed another guy on the cheek. this guy happened to be a guy i started liking while i was waiting for my bf to ask me out. but this past weekend a friend and i decided to play a game with this guy. she ended up kissing him. but she told a guy friend of ours about our "game". this guy happened to be friends with my bf. i think she did it on purpose. and that is the first time this has happened.
2006-11-20 06:25:29 · update #1
and yeah, i could understand if our "break" was a mutual decision/feeling but took it upon himself but he says that it's the only logical thing he can think of right now.
2006-11-20 06:33:28 · update #2
well for one I don't know what you did that could take that long and two... Love forgives and forgets! if he can't accept your apology and move on you don't need him. sounds to me like he is just using this as a way to get you on your knees. guilt trip! I wouldn't put up with it if I was you! you need to explain to him that you know you messed up and your asking for his forgiveness in the matter but if he thinks your going to grovel at his feet he's crazy you should have more respect for yourself than that
2006-11-20 06:25:07 · answer #1 · answered by crazy b 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well i think if you cheated you have no right to tell him what to do. If he wants 3 days or a year or more he can do that you should have thought of that when you cheated.
Now if you did not cheat depends what you did i figure you probably hurt him and in doing so that's not really love or commitment and your lucky your getting 3 days i would give you none.
Let him have some time and maybe that will give you time to think about what you did considering when you did it you really did not think did you.
2006-11-20 14:28:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him if he is that unforgiving for something that small there is no way he is going to be able to trust you in a long term relationship. Sounds like he maybe trying to manipulate him get with that other guy or enjoy being single and stress free
2006-11-20 14:29:16 · answer #3 · answered by denise e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie,
just give him some time and space to think it over because if you pressure him than ya do get together and in the long run he will keep throwing your past in your face and believe me when that happens a relationship is not going to work like that..... give him time to work out his issues and just try not to bother him if he is willing to give it another try just make sure you talk to him and clearly explain to him that if he's with you that he obviously forgave you for what you did in the past and not to bring it up and try to work on ya future together as a couple..... the best of luck hope the advice works....
2006-11-20 14:27:43 · answer #4 · answered by SHORTY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its great that you have apologized to ur bf, but only he can decide to forgive you. U can turn blue in the face telling him how sorry you are, but if he needs time the only thing you can do is give it to him and hope that he comes around or just walk away
2006-11-20 14:40:44 · answer #5 · answered by stacey r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is over the drama baby! Grow up and quit yanking his chain. He has grown some nads. Be proud of the boy!
2006-11-20 14:24:11 · answer #6 · answered by Fat-Chic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to let him come to the decision on his own. You can't prove anything to him. He has to realize that you are there for him on his own otherwise it isn't genuine. Good luck. Hope things work out for you two.
2006-11-20 14:24:07 · answer #7 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babe as hard as it is GIVE HIM THE SPACE HE NEEDS. Don't pressure him at. Im telling you this from experience. I stopped apologizing and started to be patient with him and we ended up married. Be easy girl and give the man his space.
2006-11-20 14:25:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All Apologies is a great song by nirvana
2006-11-20 14:22:52 · answer #9 · answered by jonsinher 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what's two or three days of waiting? Nothing really in terms of time.
2006-11-20 14:24:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋