for parents to kick there kids out at 18?
2006-11-20 06:17:59 · 19 answers · asked by CJL18 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
yea i think its wrong because in that age kids think they r the old enough to understand the difference between good and bad
so parents must treat thier kids in that age more rational and wise way
because they understand well
parents must give them the feel of trusty to make them be able to trust them too
when kids trust thier parents then there is no nead to cick them out
i think any oarents who cick thier kids out from hous is a crime
2006-11-20 06:23:59 · answer #1 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on why you're kicking them out. If it's for no other reason than being 18, then yes. If it's because they refuse to obey rules you've set for living in your house, then no. If it's because they're refusing to either go to college or look for a job, then give a time limit to do either one. At 18, it's reasonable to ask a working child for rent (not as much as you'd charge a stranger).
2006-11-20 06:22:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i think so, at 18 i know that teens think they knowit all cuz i was one of them, but belive me they don't. im 25 now and i wish i could go back and change the way i was thinking at 18 and mybe i would'nt have 2 kids now and no job. so yess i do think its wrong for parents to kick there kids out at 18, at least give it till 21...
2006-11-20 06:24:41 · answer #3 · answered by cathy a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if the child has decided not to go to college, then they need to get a job and move out. My son is 11 and he already knows the deal - stay in school, I'll support you until you are finished. Decide to skip college, then be prepared to find an apartment and a job asap after high school graduation! He's okay with it and understands the importance of higher education.
2006-11-20 06:22:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not if the kids aren't following the house rules. Yes they are a adult now, which means I wouldn't be imposing rules for their safety like curfew. However, chances are we will still have minor children in the home, so no cussing, coming home drunk, having guys over in a locked room... anything which could influence our younger ones. If they don't want to follow those rules, they can go take a shot in the real world.
2006-11-20 21:51:09 · answer #5 · answered by olschoolmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Kids should be given the option of moving out at 18, but they shouldn't ever be pushed out of their own home.
2006-11-20 06:31:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, especially if your going to college and have a good job. I'd rather have my child pay me rent like 50 a week to stay home to go to college. If my child was lazy didn't want to work or go to college then yes I would kick him out.
2006-11-20 06:24:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is if the kids are trying to get an education. Even Community College is expensive these days.
2006-11-20 15:52:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Even the government does not even think they are old enough to vote or buy liquor. I don't think that it is wrong to charge room and board if the child is not in school. That helps teach responsibility and prepare them to be on their own.
2006-11-20 06:27:15 · answer #9 · answered by BUPPY'S MEME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what the 18 year old is doing. IF he/she is continuing their education.... No. If they are working and contributing to the household expenses.... No
Just freeloading and or hanging out... YES
2006-11-20 06:21:25 · answer #10 · answered by easinclair 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋