Ok my ex and I broke up a month ago and 3 weeks ago I re connected with an old friend and I like him he's really cool and all its just we've been talking like crazy and last night he sent me an email saying that he loves me and that he would never do what my past 2 x's have done to me which for the most part is cheat and badly hurt, I don't know what to say i like him as more than a friend and I wanna date him but I cant right now Im trying to get over my x and supress my feelings for him because he just started dating someone else. so my queston is what do i say back to him I like him a lot and I dont want to hurt his feelings?
2006-11-20 05:59:42 · 12 answers · asked by airforcebeauty06 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thank him and tell him that you also have feeling for him as well. Let him know that you are interested but right now you are still hurting from your ex so you need to take things slow with him.
2006-11-20 06:03:11 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I mean a week after breaking up with your ex you starting dating someone new. What feelings are you trying to suppress for your ex he cheated on you and so did the one before him? You are still trying to find out what he is doing. You already know that he is seeing someone new . So now that leaves me confused if you are suppressing feeling for him then why should it matter that he is seeing someone.?So are you. Has he tried to come back he has moved on and so should you.Your past 2 exes cheated and now you have a man that saying he wouldnt do this to you and you are having doubts . Why are you leading him on if you dont want him right now? You are giving him all the signs that you want more but now that he is using the L word youre suppressing your feelings for your ex. What happened to those feelings three weeks ago.
2006-11-20 06:08:45 · answer #2 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is the great guy that you seem to think he is, then he will understand you wanting to take it slow. You can not care for someone else when you are still heartbroken over a past relationship. "Rebound" relationships rarely last, and are not particularly healthy, either. So go slow with it, see him perhaps a couple times a month and focus on getting to know each other. When you are healed from the pain of your ex, then you will be able to give more of yourself to the newer guy.
2006-11-20 06:07:24 · answer #3 · answered by carolyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I like you very much, but I don't want to hurt your feelings. I just got out of a relationship and i'm still trying to work out my feelings. It would be unfair to you for us to start a relationship when my emotions and feelings are up in the air. I need to heal a little in order to have a healthy relationship. Rest assured that I do like you and want to date you, I just want to give us a fair chance by sorting out my feelings before starting a new relationship".
Saying that let's him know that you are into him, you just want to get over your ex BF first.
Good luck, he sounds like a nice guy.
2006-11-20 06:05:50 · answer #4 · answered by makawao_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, what you can do is that meanwhile you're trying to get over your ex, go out with your friend, but not on a date. Make that clear to him ok? Request to him (if it makes you uncomfortable) that he not mention that he loves you again, and not mention dating until you're ready. It takes time, but if he really does love you, he'll wait for you.
2006-11-20 06:05:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen i advice to go out with him cuz if u stayed by urself u will keep thinking of ur x but if u started to go with him the nice moment's u have with this guy is going to make better and u will say why do i care for my x i have this amazing guy this way u will get over him .( the guy seem to appreciate u )
2006-11-20 06:36:45 · answer #6 · answered by pink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you need to focus on getting over your EX, and you still want to hang out and talk.. and you respect his feelings. Basically tell him to take it slow... because you need to..
Good luck
2006-11-20 06:07:12 · answer #7 · answered by sassy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. Tell him that you would love to date him but that you are not ready to see other people right now. Good Luck!
2006-11-20 06:02:59 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-29 07:42:09 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you like him but your getting over a bad relationship and you will go out with him when your over it
2006-11-20 06:04:21 · answer #10 · answered by kelcihrn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋