Is it a handicap according to you? Can a couple lead happy life without going to clubs and discotheques?
2006-11-20 05:52:04 · 28 answers · asked by Razor 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I asked this question because my friend's girlfriend dumped him because he didn't party.
2006-11-20 05:55:09 · update #1
I don't know how old you are but I will tell you what I have learned from age. (Not THAT much but growing up) When a girl is looking to have a good time she will more than likely choose what she is lookin for - A good TIme. However, when a girl is interested in settling down and/or getting married she will look for guys like you. Husband material. Guys who hang out in bars and get drunk every weekend usually don't make good husbands. Plus, we all eventually grow out of that and learn there are other ways to have fun in life than getting smashed and feeling sick the next morning.
So - Hang in there...you will find the right girl sooner or later. Remember, you wouldn't want a girl that would choose a guy like that over a good guy anyway!
2006-11-20 06:01:35 · answer #1 · answered by Stiletto ♥ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why are you asking the ladies? Dude, you are who you are. If a girl is not okay with you the way you are, she's not good enough for you. Any mature woman know that clubbing is a waste of time and $$$. My wife and I do things together. We spend time just us...We hike, and go rollerskating and drive 100 miles just to have a cup of coffee at some hole-in-the-wall. If you are going to be a couple, you have to know one another...You don't get to know one another yelling over the music and shaking your @$$...Although it is fun to have a private dance party in the livingroom sometimes.
BTW...I'm not some old fogey. I am 24 and my wife is 25.
2006-11-20 14:03:18 · answer #2 · answered by bobthebuilder 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes of course. Not a handicapped at all. The whole clubbing scene can be very immature and intimidating for both men and women. A fight might break out w/ you in the middle, a drink spilled on your outfit. Go only for spoof kicks.
Go to bars instead.
2006-11-20 13:56:28 · answer #3 · answered by Vanessa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah there's nothing wrong with dating a guy who doesn't party. You can't expect to change that person if you like to party. Plus some girls just don't like the clubbing/dancing/drinking/rowdy scene lol. A couple can lead a happy life if they are happy. Nothing wrong with going to clubs but if your friend broke up with his ex because he wasn't into the party scene then that just means they have differences. Bit sad really to breakup over that.
2006-11-20 14:06:29 · answer #4 · answered by Starjarus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I and I'm sure many other women will date a guy if he doesn't party. You don't have to go out every night to have a good time, staying in with someone you love can be just as much fun.
Also if a girl refuses to date a guy who doesn't party she most likely isn't ready for a relationship anyway.
2006-11-20 13:58:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anguissette 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats probably the right person. Too much party sometimes may mean tangible relations.
I am not saying you should not go out and enjoy. Yesy, you will. But party means something else and more often like so called sororities where nothing but drinking is the order of the day/night.
Life is not about getting drunk.
2006-11-20 13:57:29 · answer #6 · answered by observer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I both 26,dont party,dont like clubs. Even when we were younger we didnt like clubs,partying,yes. We just like being together. We go to the Muvico premier with the bar and resteraunt. Thats fun for us. Were like to drink but hardly party at all. If I found myself single,a partier would be out,hot or not. I like a sexy family man.
2006-11-20 13:55:29 · answer #7 · answered by TrofyWife 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's an asset, not a liability. Some of us aren't comfortable with the club scene and crowds.
Besides, that gets old after awhile, I'd imagine. All that forced gaiety and the drama, drama, drama. Quiet is better.......
2006-11-20 13:56:23 · answer #8 · answered by dingobluefoot 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I will Not date a man who considers 'partying' as his only form of entertainment. Partying is for teens, not adults. Whooping it up every so often is no problem.....but a person who lives to party is not living.
2006-11-20 14:13:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband has always hated going out, I loved it. After a while I grew out of it and got use to movie night. Have an alternative of exciting entertainment. Good luck.
2006-11-20 14:02:23 · answer #10 · answered by middelmom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋