my ex-boyfriend keeps asking me to come over to his house..... but i dont know what to do! i cant tell if he jus want to hit or if he jus wants to talk....when we broke up he said he wants us to be friends and that he wanted to get to no me better..... but i dont no wut to do..... if he only wants to hit im not gonna go but if he wants to talk and b friends then thts fine i really want to no him better and i want to go over there ..but im i being a fool should i go or not? plz help i need some advice!!!!!!!!!!!!!....................
2006-11-20 05:52:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
meet on neutral ground and take it from there
2006-11-20 05:54:35 · answer #1 · answered by lobo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know him, so I'm going to use the stereo-typical male template here.
If a guy whats to get to know you better, he'll come to your house. If a guy wants sex, he'll invite you to his.
I agree with the others. Bring some so friends and/or meet on neutral ground. It's safe and informative.
Of course, the fact that he broke up with you in the first place to " get to know you better" sounds like bull. If you want to get to know some one better, you try to be close to them and enter into their life, right? Not push them away and watch with a telescope.
proceed with caution
2006-11-20 06:02:25 · answer #2 · answered by Odindmar 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Offer to meet him somewhere public so you can have a talk. If he insists on his house, then he just wants some action.
2006-11-20 05:54:46 · answer #3 · answered by dantheman_028 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would ask him to join you and some other mutual friends out to dinner and talk there. you can get a feel for what he wants then, and later decide if you want to spend some alone time with him...
2006-11-20 05:54:29 · answer #4 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would invite him to hang with you and your friends or you could say ill hang with you and your friends or all of you together that way he cant hit. or you could go to his house only when his parents are there to make it easier to say no.
2006-11-20 06:04:27 · answer #5 · answered by becca_2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here is a sure fire way to fix things....Learn to speak and write english.
2006-11-20 05:54:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go, but duct tape your pants to your body.
2006-11-20 05:54:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u just said u didn't care if he was gonna hit or not, u still want to go over. duh, then go the **** over!
2006-11-20 05:54:44 · answer #8 · answered by Henry P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋