nor introduce me to friends and family of his (unless by accident, or default, my former neighbor is his brother). i need to add he does live at home, and comes to my place every night. so no other lady is involved. but why cant he introduce me to his mom and take me out?
2006-11-20 05:47:30 · 6 answers · asked by honestgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, it could be a number of things. He could be the type of person who wants to keep relationships separate from his friends and family, or it may be a sign that this may not be the relationship that you'd like it to be. Does he have the means (i.e. does he have a job, money, transportation, etc.) to be able to take you out? Did he take his previous women out on dates before you? Are you his first relationship? He may just be inexperienced in dating and not think to introduce you to his family nor to take you anywhere. Is it a cultural thing? Maybe he's from a culture where traditions are different and you don't meet friends and family until it is more serious.
Unfortuantely, I'm not getting a good feeling about your guy. I've seen other relationships where the person didn't take his woman out on dates and avoided mixing her in with friends and family so that he could say, down the road, that what they had wasn't a relationship. I can't say for sure that this would happen to you (because I don't know you or him), but I would look at this as something to be concerned about. If you really want to be with him, you may have to overlook these things about him and find other things to focus on in the relationship.
2006-11-20 05:59:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he is ashamed of you, or he could be a private person and doesn't want everyone to know who he is dating. He should introduce you to his family at the very least. Express an interest in meeting his family and going out. He needs to be told that this is something that bothers you.
The mean thing to say is that he's just with you for sex, or until something better comes along.
2006-11-20 13:53:06 · answer #2 · answered by dantheman_028 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can't hon cause he probably doesnt live with his Mom. He lives at home all right, his home with his wife. Get real. Check him out, Its not hard. Go to people search see what comes up. You never see him on holidays do you? nope home with his family where a good married man belongs. Then he calls you later in the evening sorry sorry i couldnt be there but Mom well shes old , blah, blah, blah.... He can't take you out someone who knows he's married might see you.
2006-11-20 13:59:08 · answer #3 · answered by elaeblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
18 months and the two of you have never been out on a date? I'm sorry to say but hes just using you for sex or hes ashamed of you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-20 13:52:44 · answer #4 · answered by inquisitor1125 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is nervous of what his parents are going to think?
2006-11-20 13:49:53 · answer #5 · answered by MiXeD uP iN lOvE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he really does not live at home. Maybe you are a booty call
2006-11-20 13:52:13 · answer #6 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋