Not being experienced myself I'm not quite sure if I just want to be with just one women (or a very few in my lifetime) or, when I do finely start having sex, nail any girl who will have me. I long for the committed relationship but if I follow in the steps of the rest of the guys in my family I will simply become a manslut. Any ideas on what leads to this behavoir?
2006-11-20 05:46:12 · 6 answers · asked by InvicibleStar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You saying you're a virgin? or just low on experience? It's a personal thing. I have been with 3. The first was a very long term committed relationship, and love was involved. We lost our virginity to eachother. We are no longer together and he denies ever going all the way with me. For the point of the story, I will tell you it kills me and shortly after we got frisky, he started cheeting on me. The second person was my best friend of six years. We both needed it, and I will tell you that we both loved each other then, in that way and we had a familiarity with one another that is uncommon. He hurt me pretty badly too. I believ, personally that sex is great, as long as it is tied into committment, weather it is your best friend, or your boyfriend. Lately, I found myself seeing that a lot of people do not value committment and dedication. I miss the feeling I get when I have sex, the feeling of not being alone, even for a very short time. I realized that I was always getting the crappy end of the stck by being dedicated. The last guy I met at a BBQ tailgate party at school. Three hours later we were in an orange grove going at it crazy monkey sex style. It was definitly relieving. Also, we both needed it. If you can detach sex from emotion, It is so great to be allieviated that way. Problem is, I can't. I want more, and for more reasons than the sex. He don't he just wants to keep going at it. It's killing me too. My point is, sex is emotional. A relationship didn't work, and it led to promiscuity, it hurts too, but honestly not near as bad, and I got what I needed out of it... a temporary emotional bandaid. Try it once, see how you feel, you wont know until you do it, trust me. If you get to that point, I live in cali, and I am bored and you alredy know how I feel about it. Wink Wink
2006-11-20 06:03:26 · answer #1 · answered by scoutredneckfluffy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys have a little harder time being promiscuous. Do you want a women that is promiscuous? Self control is what its going to take.
2006-11-20 13:50:26 · answer #2 · answered by lobo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually low self esteem leads to this.Its not cute,you shouldnt want to be that way..
2006-11-20 13:49:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fear of intimacy, not wanting to be tied down ever.
2006-11-20 13:50:45 · answer #4 · answered by braennvin2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mabe they just didnt mastrabate enough??? if you mastrabate and keep your dick away from the girls then you will be able to find that committed relationship?????
2006-11-20 13:49:08 · answer #5 · answered by thinkofmealwayslver 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
urges
2006-11-20 13:53:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋