My girlfriend wants sex all the time...HELP! Is this her fault or mine?

Question

She is 21 & I am 31 so I expect that she would want to have sex a little more than me but dayum!! She really wants it all the time. We work at home together & Im sure she would have it 3 times a day or more if I agreed. Now, the problem is that - because she pretty much THROWS herself on me all the time, I don't really initiate sex. 1. Because I know she is gonna do it, and 2. I never even get a chance to get horny enough to come on to her because she is always on me. I am grateful that I have a girlfriend that wants to have sex with me & finds me extremely attractive but Im tired of being lusted after. Not to mention the fact that she is sitting using the computer most of the day (she does get ALOT of work done) but I am running around cleaning, taking care of my 6 year old daughter and cooking etc. I am physically tired when I finally get in bed. Alot of times I just want to cuddle & watch a movie or something, but I am scared to even really touch her cause it'll lead to sex

I am gay. So....

Thanks Sherlock, so deal with the real issue.

U couldn't take over. And no I don't teach dance.

Thank You Hippie and Sam.
Diana, I understand and I guess it would be frustrating for her. But I obliged whenever she wanted sex for prett much the 1st year of our relationship & its never enough. So we did get a toy & I guess it helps me get a little rest but she doesn't really want that & gets a little upset when she has to resort to that. So... And also she doesn't support me. We both work at home its just that her work is on the computer and mine is physical labor in addition to ALL the cleaning and most of the cooking. I don't know how we are gonna work this out because I have talked to her. And when we talkl and things change it is awkward because I know she isn't happy. AAAAAAaaaaaarrrrrggggggghhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

yeah right.....your cRaZy STORY ALMOST HIDES THE FACT THAT YOU'RE gay!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 2

She is either VERY insecure and needs constant attention, OR, more likely her hormones are making her wacky. I had the same problem until my hormones calmed down at about 42 - 3 times a day wasnt enough! It is really horrible to have that kind of a drive (and FRUSTRATING!). It is genetic and there isnt much she can do to make it calm down. But you can.

If she is supporting you then I guess it's a fair trade to do most of the housework. But she needs to help or at least help pay for take out several times a week, and a housecleaner if necessary. TELL her how you feel.

As for the sex drive - Just get her a rabbit toy on the Adam and Eve website. But it sounds like you better buy two and some extra batteries with this one. That will give her some relief and you some time to relax or get things done.
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Answer 3

I think you should just talk to her about how you feel. Tell you everything you wrote here. Just let her know it's not that you don't want to have sex, it's just that you want to be able to initiate it sometimes. And it makes it special and actually better if you're not doing it ALL the time. I just realized that myself. lol Maybe if you guys try and do stuff together like fun hobbies. My husband and I just started scrapbooking together :) It's fun! Or go out to the movies or just something you two like to do. Remind her of the reasons you're together besides the physical part. I hope you can work things out with her. :)

Answer 4

If this is a problem you might want to call in a friend to take over while you "cuddle" on the couch..O by the way do you teach dance?

Answer 5

sounds like she is a nymphomaniac u have to talk with her and explain your situation and work it out between you if she does not agree with you, then you will have to ask your self is this the right person for you.

Ps i do hope you can work it out good luck to you.

Answer 6

I think your girlfriend is a sex addict. What they call a nenpho.