nothing is wrong. that kinda scares me. i know i should be happy but there is no such thing as the perfect relationship so i`m waiting on something to go wrong
2006-11-20 05:40:45 · 26 answers · asked by Taylor Leigh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
baby girl, enjoy the ride. you have the right set of mind that to expect the uneventful. so, enjoy it while it last.
2006-11-20 05:44:41 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have the two of you been together? Do you live together or apart? These things really make a difference in how you see the other person and the relationship.
When I first got with my fiance 17 months ago, I thought he was PERFECT. Then we moved in together a year ago and I saw some flaws, but nothing big enough to worry about. I just mention them to him and he typically takes care of it. I got lucky and got a great guy. Put it this way, since no one is 100% perfect, on a scale of 1-10 (10 being perfect), I give my guy a rating of about 9.5 to 9.9. I have had many guys in the past that had been on the scale down to about 2 or 3, and my ex husband was at a minus rating! I finally got lucky and got the right one for me that has a very high rating.
So, relax. Don't go looking for anything wrong/flaws. They are there, but if this is a new relationship, you typically won't see them right away. It can take a few months or years to see flaws. And believe me, EVERYONE has some flaws. NO ONE is perfect. Just enjoy the relationship, take it one day at a time.
2006-11-20 05:56:38 · answer #2 · answered by honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No relationship is perfect. However, some like to pretend it is so they don't have to deal with conflict. If you never ever have any differences & agree about everything then that itself is a problem. Meaning one of you (or on rare ocassions both) is stifling their real opinions and emotions for the sake of Peace. This is not good and can only last for so long.
On the other hand if you have a history of violent unhealthy relationships - the newly "normal" relationship can seem too perfect and even boring to some. THat you have to get over and tell yourself that THIS is Norma!
Only you know which one of these applies to you and your bf.
2006-11-20 05:50:24 · answer #3 · answered by Stiletto ♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Worried might be the wrong word.
If I were in your shoes, I might simply assume that I'm still emphasizing the positive aspects and traits of my beloved so much that I am overlooking the weaknesses all human beings naturally have.
Easy to do when we're completely smitten, especially in the earlier stages of a relationship...but completely impossible to do once you've lived with someone for 5 years or more.
Best to you.
2006-11-20 05:43:54 · answer #4 · answered by Timothy W 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i thought the same thing at first. give it time! trust me! how long have you guys been together? with time, things will soon start to change. maybe not drastically, but they will. there's no such thing as "too perfect" in fact, there's not even a such thing as perfect. we all have our flaws and issues. it just may u longer to figure out what your partner's is.
2006-11-20 05:44:20 · answer #5 · answered by shoppingfreak05 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship isn't perfect now. You guys just haven't had a disagreement yet. Get to know him as well as you can now. It will make it a lot easier to get over any hiccups later.
Don't go looking for the bad things. Just enjoy how things are going now.
2006-11-20 05:48:07 · answer #6 · answered by peter n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time Taylor and soon enough you'll have disagreements over things that you differ on. I have been with my fiance for 3 years now and we have only had 2 arguments in that time. Sounds to good to be true but we are able to communicate with much honesty and openly with each other and this helps to cut down on arguments also. Be grateful for he great relationship that you are involved in and don't become upset if and when you do have your first disagreement.
2006-11-20 05:45:46 · answer #7 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok, count your blessings.
ok, now think about any times where you have disagreed with your man but kept your mouth shut to keep the peace. Ask your BF to do the same. Come up with 3 or 4 issues together that you promise to always have integrity and honesty about, even if it breaks the peace.
the little things, though, it's best to not argue. not worth the trouble.
2006-11-20 05:44:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As women, we always do. Just enjoy it for what it is, a great relationship! How can you be in a relationship and actually enjoy it, if you are running ahead o the next corner and looking for disaster. Live in the moment. None of us are promised tomorrow.
2006-11-20 05:44:14 · answer #9 · answered by PisceKween 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Listen, i thought that this man was to perfect and our relationship so i sabatoged it by sleeping with another guy then telling the good guy what i did...he cried and i hurt him really bad...that was the last time i seen him...he died in a car crash two weeks later...he was the love of my life...please enjoy him and love him...and he's probaly the one for you....don't take him forgranted...ask yourself "do you think you can find any better"
2006-11-20 05:49:46 · answer #10 · answered by jolie t 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Live in the moment - it may not always stay perfect - but enjoy it now and don't bring trouble by doubting!!
2006-11-20 05:44:38 · answer #11 · answered by wild_orchid_tx36 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋