2006-11-20 05:38:31 · 27 answers · asked by crazylove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, it just means you have no respect for them or your love, or yourself, for that matter. And that can lead to them not loving you.
2006-11-20 05:43:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is only a question that can be truly answered by the cheater.
In my experience, cheating has less to do with love than it does attention. Many people also have such low self esteem that they need the attention of others besides their partner for self gratification, even if they love the one they are with very, very much. Some are selfish and although they "love" their partners, it isn't enough to keep them from straying.
There are so many reasons that people give for cheating and so few of them are "I am not in love with my partner". I would imagine there are some who do it because they are not in love anymore and are too chicken sh*t to just be honest about it, so they cheat to make the OTHER person leave them so they don't look like the "bad guy".......then they can tell others "Oh, boo hoo hoo. I made a mistake and wanted to work it out but so-and-so wouldn't aren't they awful?"
Truly, the real answer to this question depends on the cheater. The reasons for cheating are multitude.
2006-11-20 13:45:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may care for the person and not want to see them get hurt in a physical manner, but no you do not love them. You can't cheat on a person and claim to LOVE them. When you truly love someone, you wouldn't and you won't do anything to hurt them in anyway........ you would never want to see them cry because of you and something you did. SO, to be able to hurt someone you are with and make them cry, that means that NO you do not love them and you didn't love them when you were with the other person. You should never cheat on anyone, it really hurts that person. If you have thoughts of cheating and doing things with another person or find yourself thinking you want to do things with someone else, then you should break up with the one your with before you do anything......... that is the RIGHT thing to do and the HONORABLE. If you can think of another in that way, and know that you can be with another in that way, then you are NOT in love with the one that loves you most. Blessed be............
2006-11-20 13:47:00 · answer #3 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has their own reasons for cheating on someone, valid or not. Cheating doesn't necessarily mean you don't love them. Sometimes people cheat while they are under the influence of drugs or alcohol and their judgement is impaired. Sometimes lust can feel stronger than love at a moment. There are many different reasons or excuses, but that doesn't mean it's right.
2006-11-20 13:43:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you love someone you accept one with all of ones good and bad points. When you cheat someone you actually do it for sex whether soon or later. But it is possible that you keep loving someone and keep sleeping with someone else also. But the question is that whether it os OK with your lover also. If you love that person give him/her equal chance of cheating on you. Then accept him/her with that cheating. Then you would be honest otherwise not.
2006-11-20 13:51:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it does mean that u dont love them cuz if u did u wouldnt have cheated on them in the first place
if u loved this person then y would u cheat on them?
2006-11-20 13:43:02 · answer #6 · answered by Fire 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No it means that you want an open relationship and should be up front about that. You aren't ready or not the type for a committed relationship. If that is communicated early on in relationships, we wouldn't have half the ridiculous questions about partners cheating on Yahoo answers. Good luck!
2006-11-20 13:42:09 · answer #7 · answered by PisceKween 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. You could love someone, and still cheat on them. There are different kinds of love. People cheat on people for plenty of different reasons.
2006-11-20 13:41:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
umm....its kinda hard to say! If it has happened more then once then i would feel safe to say "move on he doesn't love you", BUT... it all depends on the situation i think the only exception i would give a person is if he was drunk! Any other time i would just give up, and even if he does love you, you don't want to be with a person who will cheat on you right?
2006-11-20 13:41:35 · answer #9 · answered by --Br0oklYn-- 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes it does why would you wanna cheat for then telling thats its over or at least to explane that you wants to move on and find another chic but dont go cheating on her like that so you know I never cheated before because i just know that you can get calt.
2006-11-20 13:45:13 · answer #10 · answered by barnerlanisha 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO. people cheat for different reasons and some time things happen.
2006-11-20 13:42:47 · answer #11 · answered by Melody M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋