so how do i let him know that i know about his online chatting with making a scandle. i know there a possiblity he want a 3some but i dont.
2006-11-20 05:25:42 · 19 answers · asked by ~K!MB3RLY~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are pretty nice to still be calling him your hubby.
Set up his chats to record a log when he is not near the computer. Print the log after one of his chatting sessions and highlight the evidence.
Present it to him and point blank ask him why he thinks this is a good idea. Don't ask him to explain, just ask him why he thinks this is such a great idea.
He will be caught off guard and forced to give a reply. Most likely it will be that it is not a good idea. Then you can ask him why he is doing it.
Take care,
Troy
2006-11-20 05:37:53 · answer #1 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get on the site under a fake name, and look him up and message him. After a couple times chatting with him online and seeing first hand what he is capable of make the decision of what to do about it. Either you can say that you didn't like how far he took things, or it might just spice up your love life (like a role playing thing, if you are into that). Good Luck...and remember it is just a computer, but if it hurts your feelings, let him know.
2006-11-20 05:39:38 · answer #2 · answered by D R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How? just telling him, is better to be red one time , explain him you want to share with him everything, marriage is about trust and honesty, so why keep in secret something? if he wants a 3some and you don't, let him know you are not into that, i suppose if he consider that the marriage worth it he will be stoping that.But i think you two need a good conversation without fight.
2006-11-20 05:33:04 · answer #3 · answered by lovetoyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that you know. Tell him how you feel about it and what you will do if it continues. But dont threaten something you wont follow thru on. Also most people have a deeper problem if they are pretending or lying about who they are. And if your husband is wanting sex outside of marriage. There are issues he is dealing with that need to be resolved and that does not mean you dont satify him. It means he has issues about something and it may have nothing to do with sex.
2006-11-20 05:33:14 · answer #4 · answered by titiwhaa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont pick up a fight on this subject. Take it lightly and try to enjoy your life. Rather when he is online take it very lightly. He is not going to go anywhere. This problem is almost in every third house. So stay calm and give more time to hubby.
2006-11-20 05:57:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all of your husband is performing like a baby! No grown guy could ever get inebriated sufficient to disrespect his spouse like that, expecially in public! second, i does not have waited for the different woman to inform him off. you should have gotten rid of your self and your inebriated husband from the situtation. NO EXCUSES! i imagine you want to have a valuable lengthy discuss your courting! What might want to have befell in case you werent there and yet another frisky woman replaced into?
2016-11-29 07:41:02 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In case you cant front him. Tell him that you are some one else(married) but interested to meet him.
There has been a real situation when a mom on line dated a man (her real son) and went to see him on the beach.
2006-11-20 05:33:41 · answer #7 · answered by MY Regards to All 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Create a different profile and chat with him online. Pretend to be someone else, and ask if he is truely single or is it a ploy to get girls to flirt with him.
2006-11-20 05:31:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try answering one of his "ad's" yourself, set a time to meet him, then you show up... when you get there he'll think that you're just running into him, so tell him that you're there to meet him...
and just tell him that you saw his stuff online... you're in public, so he shouldn't make to big of a deal right then, and it get's it out between the two of you..
you also need to figure out how your going to deal with him in genereal... do you want to seperate, or just have him stop?? if you want him to change at all, he needs to want to change...
remember, it's much easier to find better ways to hide this from a partner, then to stop all together... if he says he's stopped (or will stop), follow threw on watching out... if he refuses to meet you and says online that he's just flirting, keep that in mind...
2006-11-20 05:31:56 · answer #9 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be upfront. Tell him you know what he's been doing and you want to know why. If he starts off on a tangent about you snooping, tell him its NOT the point... THE ENTIRE point is that you caught him and now you want to know WHY! Dont let him blame you for snooping... Its your computer too right?
2006-11-20 05:29:56 · answer #10 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋