it was her 19th birthday 11-17 she knows i like her i told her 2 weeks ago than she said she just need a friend now. she just got out a 2 year relationship were they were going to marry but her ex broke it off cause he was unhappy. they been apart for maybe 2-4 months. we had a little to drink not much about 2 shots when it started she told me to cuddle her which i have done before. than she told to mess with her neck lick it and stuff that lead to making out. after a good half hour she gets up and says sorry. she not ready right. that what she sorry for right? what should i do now? what should i say? when should call?
2006-11-20 05:21:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she is probably confused... she likes you but she is not over her ex and she is sorry for leading you on. Call her NOW and talk to her about it and see what she says it cant hurt
2006-11-20 05:26:21 · answer #1 · answered by Kayla P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say that two shots maybe got her a little buzzed and not realizing what she was doing..(maybe thinking you were her ex)
or something
Guaranteed she didn't mean to do what she did.
And thats why she said she was sorry
Knowing that you like her as more than a friend she didn't mean to lead you on so she said sorry
She might feel a little weird around you for a little bit so just don't bring it up because she don't like you as more than a freind so let it go.
2006-11-20 13:33:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You must've triggered something (at her request) that reminded her of her ex. She probably still has feelings for him. My advice would be to not call her and hope that gives you "mystique" or whatever in her eyes. That might make her come to you. I think if you chase after her your chances are low. Hard to say, everyone's different, but that would have been my approach back in my single days. I've seen ignoring women pay off more than not, and when it didn't I just looked for someone else.
2006-11-20 13:47:23 · answer #3 · answered by Rossonero NorCal SFECU 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she's sorry because she doesn't feel like she's ready for a new boyfriend yet, and she felt that she was leading you on...
if you want to stay as a friend to her, tell her that you thought everything through, and that everything is ok, and you want to keep being her friend, and that later on, when she's doing better, you'd love to see if there was something going on between the two of you...
if you try to push the issue of wanting to date her now, she's going to push back, you'll lose the possability of a dating relationship with her altogether, and maybe her friendship aswell...
2006-11-20 13:25:38 · answer #4 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is sorry because she led you in a intimate state which unfortunately she didn't know what she was doing because she was substituting you for the boy but after realizing that it was you she felt sorry to have made you feel like their was something between you and her which their was nothing, so she said sorry for leading you on and making you do stuff not only because she was drinking but she never wanted to make another mistake.
2006-11-20 13:29:51 · answer #5 · answered by cute_girl_shantie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is just 2 to 4 months. It takes time to recover from a relationship. you be patient and be with her.
2006-11-20 13:30:41 · answer #6 · answered by DIm 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't say or do anything, all she needed was a friend and she tried to give you a snack not the whole kitchen look she is still trying to grieve the last man and it sounds like to me she still loves him. give her one last call to explain but keep it breif or you will run her off then if it still is the same way wait for her to come to you...............
2006-11-20 13:27:53 · answer #7 · answered by rachael s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she's sorry she played you-- she was rebounding, my friend.
don't call her, just the next time you see her say "hey, i just wanted you to know that everything's cool, don't worry, and a good time was had by all."
2006-11-20 13:24:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well maybe she has feelings for you but doesnt want to show them because she might be afraid the same thing might happen again...she is just unsure, she is lost...she doesnt know what to do...
2006-11-20 13:25:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she isnt ready 2 take it to that level yet
2006-11-20 13:25:47 · answer #10 · answered by Pillsbury D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋