he says he needs time and he will have everything figure out in a little while but he wants me to wait and accused me of cheating on him even though i didnt but they same day we went on a break he was with his x. i dont know anymore i love him but what do i do. he says he wants to be more then friends when i told him to go date his x he said he didnt want to, that he wants me he just wants a break rite now. he ran all around this last weekend with other people and he is only 22, but i want us to work, what do i do to make him really miss me and that he might lose me. i dont want anyone else?!?!? ANY ADVICE PLEASE!
2006-11-20 05:21:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he wants his cake and eat it too. Give him 48 hours more to figure himself out or you'll walk away to never look back. If he hasn't figured things out by now, he isn't going to. Stop wasting your time on him, and find someone who'll love you now and in the future, not while sleeping with the ex's.
2006-11-20 05:25:37 · answer #1 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants you and his girlfriend, too. I guaranf....ing t-it. You watch hes got some girl he met just be4 he told you he needed a break and wanted to be free to have some o'that but if it didnt work out you would still be waiting fo' him. With this kind of guy only one thing works: leave his ***. Make him want to change to be with you then you can be gracious and "let him " go out a couple nights a week with the guys, cause after all you want some time,too. If he doesnt come running then you know he didnt give a s..t anyway so your better off either way.
2006-11-20 13:27:29 · answer #2 · answered by elaeblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to agree that he's only wanting to be with someone else and he's using the break as an excuse. If it wasn't for the break it would be considered cheating and that would be wrong. Either way, this is wrong.
Break = breakup
Good luck with everything!
2006-11-20 13:39:27 · answer #3 · answered by Minouners 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to checkout somebody else but keep you in the wings in case he needs you.Id tell him that you are going to date others then & do it.P.s. I wrote this before I read all that you had to say.It sounds like he wants to keep his options open.Give him a dose of reality,,date others.If he cares,,he will let you know within a couple months,,if not,,you are better off.
2006-11-20 13:27:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants a break so he can go get some strange without cheating on you. trust me you should just use the break to find someone who appreciates you, you are worth more than he is giving you
2006-11-20 13:25:04 · answer #5 · answered by benjamin b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him the time he needs nd if all goes well...good for you
2006-11-20 13:28:05 · answer #6 · answered by gabrr!elalalala 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋