Ok So I like know a lot of girls who are dating guys that do drugs and they tell me"im so scared that one day he'ill hit me"etc..
But I also know lots of girls who date guys who DONT DO DRUGS and the guys reaction is completly different they arnt afraid of their girlfriends(Hitting them Whatever....)But why??
(there are 2questions thanx!!)
Guys I mean do you all acknowelege your force or not??Thanks Peace God Bless!!
2006-11-20 05:21:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK first off your question isn't too clear but lets hope my answers are:
1. Guys who hit girls are cowards! Doing drugs does increase their negitive behavior but they still can hit women without drugs! Guys who hit women were usually abused themselves, have problems with regulating their emotions, and learned this from watching their dad beat their mom.
2. NO, not all guys show their force, they may yell yell when they are upset but who doeesn't? IF your being hit leave him ASAP, there are better men out there who will treat you with the respect u deserve instead of beating the crap out of you for some dumb reason. If he says he is sorry he is lying, because he will do it again! Hope you understand this and take my advice, it may save your life!
Good Luck!
2006-11-20 05:30:40 · answer #1 · answered by stewiegrif27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys that are on drugs become emotionally detached paranoid and suspicious which can lead to violence. These guys are unbalanced and need help. They loose all sense of direction and go off the rails. Their emotions cant be controlled they take offence quickly and react without thinking clearly.
Sober guys have a rational way of thinking they don't take offence as quickly and are a lot more stable within themselves. They are usually brought up the right way and understand that it is wrong to lift your hand to a women. Yes some of us do acknowledge our force.
2006-11-20 13:34:48 · answer #2 · answered by george 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok.. I understand that if a guy does drugs us girls always think well because they are doing this..it makes them mean and we are afraid of them abusing us.. also to though.. thier have been other ways that men abuse us women.. If u let the man know u are afraid then they know they can win u over and take advantage of u. U have to be able to stand up for yourself and let them know u mean business. long sentence short. i had a verbal abusive bf.. i stood up to him and told him how i felt about him. us women have to be brave and every man out thier isnt mean and abusive. u just have to look sometimes..
i know what i want and i stand up for myself and every other woman should and guys know this as well.. u have to treat the lady with respect as they would them.. u understand what i am saying.. well i hope this was helpful to u
god bless u as well
happy holiday
2006-11-20 13:39:56 · answer #3 · answered by blue eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any man who would hit a woman w/o first taking a hit isn't a man.
Drugs or no, a true man shows restraint with force.
2006-11-20 13:29:28 · answer #4 · answered by afsm666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've dated plenty of guys that do drugs and that was never a factor in being afraid that they hit me..
If a girl is afraid her boyfriend will hit her, it's him, not the chemicals in his system
2006-11-20 13:27:12 · answer #5 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a man who hits a woman whether he's on drugs or not is nothing but a coward
2006-11-20 13:44:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋