Ok, so itz been a while since ive came on here. This weekend my hun and i were having a great time. We hung out Friday ALL day..then saturday i had some stuff to do. I ended up at his house Saturday night cuase he wouldnt stop blowing up my phone. IT WAS AWSOME! until he asked me to give him head!..now usually I wouldnt hesitate right!.but he and i are not exclusive.I KNOW he is not seeing anyone else. (he has no time hes with me 24/7) but still i feel like there are certain things you do with someone whom u know is comited to u. i hope im not wrong!. so I said NO! of course and we were horsing around. then he said please and i started laughing ( mind you im the type of girl that laughs a lot when shes nervous) so he turned around and he looked kind of upset. then he takes his pants off!!..i started laughing histerically i mean not at HIM! but just at the situation.
2006-11-20 05:20:35 · 4 answers · asked by He's my Sunshine 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He took it to heart and got very upset. so i asked him if he was mad and he said yes so i got up and started puting my clothes back on...then he grabbed my jeans and threw them accross the room. HE WAS LAUGHING the whole time..and i was the one mad now.. so i got up changed and started walking out..HE ALWAYS walks m out of his house..so i didnt say a word i just started walking out.. then he said wait for me and i said dont worry about it cause he was still laying down..so i walked to my car hurried up and closed the doors..then he comes up to my car and i didnt open the dorr i just said go back inside..then as i was leaving i called him and he picked up the phone and hung up TWICE!!..im not the type of girl that puts up with this so i left him a message saying obviously he didnt want to talk to me so call me when u want to...I HAVENT HEAR FROM HIM! :( ....was i wrong to leave??im confused...Do u think its over???
2006-11-20 05:24:22 · update #1
if he cares about you, he should take the one....i understand that emotions are high at the moment, and his mind is very fogged...but also your laughing does not help much, he will not take your NO serious if you are laughing around....just explain to him that you are not comfortable doing that at the moment, and ask him to understand which he should without you asking
2006-11-20 05:28:00 · answer #1 · answered by BiggBoss05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More then likely you guys will hook back up and this thing will be squashed. Just give him some time. The thing is, now he knows what you won't do. Guys have a tendency of going elsewhere to get things sexually from someone else if the one they got aint willin. It's not to say he's goin to get rid of you, but just keep someone on the side to give him head. Trust me it is very easy to establish that.
2006-11-20 05:37:45 · answer #2 · answered by SandMan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you said no the first time he should have gotten the message and not pushed the issue further. Obviously you were uncomfortable with the idea, which is fine. If he truly loves you he won't force his desires on you. Did you explain your reasoning to him about why? Maybe he thought you were playing hard to get.
2006-11-20 05:26:19 · answer #3 · answered by dantheman_028 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he know your boundries prior to?? If not and you didn't explain them then I can see why he got upset first....I am not sure what got you so upset...because you started laughing so he prob took that as he would. I am not saying you were wrong or he was wrong...just trying to figure it out.
Maybe you should try to talk to him (even his machine) and explain things to him. Maybe try going over there and making up.
JMO
2006-11-20 05:28:34 · answer #4 · answered by AzMom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋