2006-11-20 05:17:08 · 14 answers · asked by blkdiva360 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-11-20 05:18:54 · answer #1 · answered by Joe 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Try to talk to your real friends about the way that you are feeling, besides, and this is very very good, just WRITE, get something like a little notebook where you are going to write everything that you are feeling, all the time that you feel bad or confused or angry. I know its not easy, actually, i just got trough that, but let me tell you something, leaving a relationship is hard, but never impossible, with mjore reason if it was bad for you.
Try to practice some sports, read good books, those kind of inspiring books, eat things you like, and even if you dont feel like that, get yourself pretty; i wouldnt recommend you to get to know a person right now, because is necessary that you heal your heart and then you can start again but in a nice way. Go to church, belive me dear, GOD is real, and He has been my strenght and my light in the difficult times, pray and ask God to fill your heart with His great Love and Peace, and i can asure you that He will.
My mail is goldfishesfeliz@yahoo.com, write me if u want to talk more.
Blessings for you!
2006-11-20 13:28:51 · answer #2 · answered by Shannella 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Remember the life you were leading before this guy comes along? Do you still have the friends you used to hang out with before you were with him? If you answer yes to both, then you are gonna be just fine. This time though, lead an even more interesting life. When you were with him, have you ever thought of doing something but didn't as you thought it wasn't appropriate as you have a boyfriend? If you had, what are you waiting for? There are many things you can do to forget him but remember, just don't torture yourself just because you wanna forget him coz you are gonna make him a happier man by doing stupid things!!!
2006-11-20 13:34:56 · answer #3 · answered by PhiloPhobic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a hobby to get your mind off of things. Whatever you do, don't retaliate no matter what is said or done. You'll look as bad as he does, unless you were the one who began the bad break up, then shame. Either way, get a hobby, get new friends, find yourself and just enjoy life. There's better things to do with yourself and with your time than giving an ex the satisfaction of knowing you can't get over it.
2006-11-20 13:20:02 · answer #4 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON,try not to dwell on it.Do things that make you feel good,that you can still do with or without that person.Smile everyday when you wake up.Have hope that one day things WILL get better. Maybe that person you had the bad break up with was not the one for you,and God has someone better instore.Stay positive...good luck
2006-11-20 13:21:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
alcohol. just kidding, don't do that.
do things you love
call all your friends
throw a party for no reason
dress up sexy and go to a coffee shop or some place where you'll get checked out for some harmless fun
learn a new activity like the guitar or piano
go to the library and check out some books you've been meaning to read
2006-11-20 13:20:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you say ( recover ) first you need to be strong this is not a life and death situation move one but you aren't going to jump in another relationship like that so quickly learn to respect yourself first then trust yourself, love yourself because if you don't you will not be able to love no one else.
learn your likes\ dislikes and see how well you know yourself first before accepting someone in your life that is totally different from you don't be sad because i know it hurts but remember life is one big road with allot of signs and i know that the next person to come in your life will be someone special and will treat you even better don't worry have faith bye.
2006-11-20 13:24:05 · answer #7 · answered by cute_girl_shantie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
theres no way to fully but a bottle of a&a and pepsi might do the trick only for a little while. but to be honest only time heals the pain. so look inside yourself and find something that you have never done and make tommorow your day and go have fun.hang out with some friends and family and find a shoulder to cry on because you are going to need one last cry.....from a personal experience myself........
2006-11-20 13:23:28 · answer #8 · answered by rachael s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most important stay confident and positive. Only these things will get you through along with the hope that there will be a better relationship in your future. You will draw people in when you have these qualities.
2006-11-20 13:22:18 · answer #9 · answered by SJF 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dark chocolate & Vodka baby! Lol..Just kidding..talk with a friend about how you feel, its better to talk about stuff like that so you can get it out of your system...Atleast i feel like it helps me...
2006-11-20 13:20:08 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Beatty's♥Girl♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell yourself that he's the one loosing someone incredible, and that you're better off without him. Now you have a whole world of possibilities. It's his loss, not yours.
2006-11-20 13:22:23 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋