i meet the sweetest gentleman and everthing was going great until he stopped calling and became more unavailable. why do men play games like this/
2006-11-20 05:15:48 · 17 answers · asked by Glamourous 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I HAVE MET A MILLION OF EM SWEETIE! First of all, its all a game.. men like to hunt for their prey.. they look for the challenge.. not saying your easy as in sexual easy.. but they don't like things to be just honky dorie.. if you know what I am saying.. Am I saying is it worth the heartache or worth playing the game with them? NOOOOO... When you meet your soulmate one day, games will be forgotten and he will be ready to settle down.. most men like your dealing with are just out to be out.. they are not ready to settle down and find the one.. but.. i will tell you that some men like that are ready to settle down but they are scared of committment... I have had 2 great men in my life do the same exact thing to me one 6 months and one 1 year relationship.. to this day.. they will tell you they screwed up.. they were scared of committment and ran away from a wonderful woman.. don't let it get you down because it is not you.. if he is not giving you the time of day, he is not worth it anyway.. regardless of "how sweet he WAS" some men put on a show to get what they want.. then when they get what they want they don't want it anymore... keep your head up .. let love come to you.. it will happen naturally.. wish you the best of luck!
2006-11-20 05:26:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous Wife 24F 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think there are too many disgruntled females on this board who have been hurt.
Not all men are into this "so called hunt for prey".
Not all Men are not predators.
I have done the 2 girlfriend thing. it wasnt because of i "love to hunt for woman."
The simple answer is I was Greedy.
Alot of men are just simply greedy. One woman is not enough they must have another. They dont get everything that they look for in one woman so they feel they must have two or three.
While doing that they can forget about you at around the same time you do become intrested.
Alot of men feel they deserve to have it all exactly the way they want it. Some unfortunately never realize that this can never happen.
Thats all it is. Greed.
Not all men are greedy some really do become disintrested in you.
it could be that you took to long to be intrested.
If a female is not intrested in me at first and then all of sudden becomes intrested that is like a warning sign to be cautious.
2006-11-20 07:01:57 · answer #2 · answered by Christopher M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are never going to have any kind of friendship except through email, then I would not bother. An email friendship is not a very deep one, and there is no sense in stressing yourself out over what to say and how to say it. If you can atleast make phone calls, so that you can tell how he means something he is saying and vice versa it may be worth it, but without more background to the history of your friendship there's not much more I can say.
2016-05-21 23:46:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think it's only men that do this? Both sexes do and there are a couple of obvious reasons:
1. Once they get to know you, they realize you aren't "right" for them.
2. During the initial dating process they meet someone who seems better.
3. They aren't interested in a long-term relationship and you are acting "too committed" for their comfort.
4. They love the satisfaction of having someone new want them and care about them as it feeds their ego.
It's true that men are traditionally "hunters" and certainly some guys are "players" but I suspect most of the break-ups that occur fall into one of those four non-sexist reasons for relationship failure.
2006-11-20 05:24:28 · answer #4 · answered by RangerEsq 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some men are just players. They like the chase and hunt and once they've got you, they don't want you. Only thing you can do is move on and try picking better next time. There are some signs, too attentive, calling too many times a day, etc. Good luck with future non-players.
2006-11-20 05:18:56 · answer #5 · answered by Elvira 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, men play games like this because... they can.
Men LOVE the chase. Try not to take this personally. I'm sure it has nothing to do with you. This is who he is... and he's probably torturing some other woman right now with the same behavior.
Be glad he's gone. It just makes room for the right one to show up that much sooner. :)
2006-11-20 05:21:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
They like a challenge. They want to see how long it takes for you to wear down and then the thrill ( so to speak ) is gone. I've been on both sides of this and let me tell you, it can be awful on both sides. Basiclly, the chase is over and the guy moves on to the next female he spots.
2006-11-20 05:20:07 · answer #7 · answered by sgtofpain 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It may not be a game, some people just tend to run out of conversation, was it 50/50 or did one of you do most of the talking?
2006-11-20 05:20:13 · answer #8 · answered by Poker Face 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys like to be chased by girls that aren't interested in them, like the reverse. You probably just need to play hard-to-get longer.
2006-11-20 05:20:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There could be issues of which you are unaware -- besides just playing games.
Then too, you could have been getting played like a deck of cards.
2006-11-20 05:21:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋