Okay last night I caught my uncle hurting my brother. Everyone knows that my brother - newly adoptive - was abused. I told my mother and she didn't care. So I went and told my dad and he said he would file a police report. I did watch my dad talk to my uncle last night, but I know my uncle hit my brother a few times this morning. I think my uncle thinks my brother told on him (which, unfortenetly, he probably wouldn't.)
Then the real kicker: I caught my uncle talking to my real brother, and he gave him a VICEIOUS blow to the side of the head! I don't know what to do, and I'm afraid my uncle may have been hurting him for a long time now.
HELP!
2006-11-20 04:47:04 · 16 answers · asked by I think... 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You should round up both brothers in the same room away from the rest of the family and talk to each other, tell your real brother what you saw happening to the adoptive one and vice-versa, if your parents will not do anything then all 3 of you need to go to the police as a group (the story will be more convincing) or a teacher in your school a pastor at your church anybody you think can help and always remember NEVER STOP TALKING. your parents may try to buy you off with gifts and such but no matter what never back down.
2006-11-20 04:55:17 · answer #1 · answered by Eric D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have posted several questions about this issue....IF you are really sure about the abuse, don't rely on your parents to do something.....Every state has a 1800 number, where you can report abuse anonymously.....A CPS (child protective services) agent will come out to your home and assess the situation and determine if there is real abuse, the most important thing is get your brother in a safe environment.....I work with the courts to get abused children placed in a safe environment.....There must be physical marks on your brother, demonstrating physical abuse....Emotional abuse is MUCH harder to prove.....My question is, why is your uncle always around your brother? BEST OF LUCK
2006-11-20 05:06:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go to the authorities. And they will ask your brothers. Don't wait on your family, if they wanted to do something, it would have been done already. Stay away from this uncle, and get some help from a counselor if possible. This is a tough situation. Don't know of anymore advice to give you. Maybe go to the school counselor and ask what you should do. God bless! :)
2006-11-20 05:01:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's apparent your folks are no help. Talk to your teacher or school counselor about it. By law, they will be obligated to call the authorities on your uncle for the abuse and your parents for letting it happen.
Do not allow them to give you blame for "ruining the family" or any of that crap. Your uncle is an abuser for hitting kids and your parents are abusive for doing nothing about it.
2006-11-20 05:06:20 · answer #4 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think your parents are going to do anything about this. I really think you need to tell someone outside the family. What your uncle is doing is wrong and he needs to be stopped. Find someone you can trust to help you, a teacher, school nurse. Anyone at school is required to report this to the police, so they will help you. Be brave.
2006-11-20 04:54:29 · answer #5 · answered by cassie12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do have self belief that's new child abuse. To me it often is the comparable element as offering a new child drugs and allowing them to use as much as they desire....toddlers don't be attentive to from now on effective, mum and dad do and could held to blame. there is not any reason for a new child to weigh over a hundred pounds except they have an severe medical difficulty, which may be comprehensible. For the government to permit that's ridiculous...yet what do they care, they slightly care approximately practise much less well-being.
2016-12-10 12:30:17 · answer #6 · answered by deibert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the cops NOW. And figure out a safe place for you and your brother(s) to go if you can't get away from your uncle.
You are right and your uncle is wrong, but it sounds as if he will come after you if he thinks you are reporting him. So get the cops involved NOW.
And good for you doing the right thing.
2006-11-20 04:55:49 · answer #7 · answered by Scott F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get help real fast because one day instead of him hitting that child that child will risk his life to kill your uncle one of these days or your uncle is going to hit him and he is not going to see that child get up back again.
You need to take a stand and know right from wrong basically you do know because you are saying that you identify that the situation is out of hand.
Please someone will get hurt you need to talk to them yourself and tell them if they don't stop you will call the police and see what happens after.
2006-11-20 05:06:03 · answer #8 · answered by cute_girl_shantie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with your brothers and parents right away, if they don't do something, then keep asking , school counselors, teachers or police until you get help you. I am very proud of you for standing up for your siblings. It's very admirable.
2006-11-20 04:50:24 · answer #9 · answered by Carrie H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why do't you tell a teacher from school amybe they can help you with this- youg uys need to motify the police and get a restraining order through court against him- this is child abuse and it's wrong- if you ever see anything like this or ehar of it agaon- call the police yourself it's not fair!
2006-11-20 04:54:13 · answer #10 · answered by Ms.Budonkadonk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋