2006-11-20 04:27:48 · 12 answers · asked by mycatjello@yahoo.ca 2 in Education & Reference ➔ Home Schooling
I started homeschooling my son in 10th grade. It was good and bad both.
He was the perfect candidate for homeschooling - because he really didn't care for traditional school, so he saw real success academically. He was able to get more done, school-wise in less time than he had - and we did a lot of things in a very untraditional manner (which meant that he was a whole lot MORE interested in what we were doing...). This is a big reason he saw so much more success. One of the things we did, for instance, was creating a MacGuyver Guide to Physics - you know, the guy on TV that could do anything with a paper clip, the top to a Bic pen, a rubber band, and about 5 minutes? ;)
Since he was very social, he was able to keep in touch with friends at school. We belonged to a great health club in town (we lived "rural," so being able to go into town and go into the gym every day was a big plus)...
He was able to continue in the sports program at the school. He was a starter on the basketball team, and his school made VERY sure he did!
The down side was that he couldn't go BACK to school. You need credits to graduate in Oregon. That meant that rather than an actual high school diploma, he had to get a GED. Not a problem, he did with super high marks...and while he was studying for that (during what would have been his junior year in high school), he also took classes toward a real estate license.
He took his state real estate exam 1 month after his 18th birthday (the soonest it was available) and passed. Since then, he's been taking classes toward property appraisal.
Hey, the kid's not quite 20, and he is HOT!
Yep, I'm a proud mom...you BET!
2006-11-20 06:43:45 · answer #1 · answered by chershaytoute 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a bright kid. You write well too, much better than many other kids who post questions here! From what I've read, you have more issues in your life than the homeschooling issue. If your mom won't let you out when she's away, she either can't trust you because of something you've done or because of some problem between you two. I really think you need to handle that issue before you address the home/public school issue. I am a mom, and my kids sometimes think I'm unreasonable too. Let me tell you this, even though moms are people with different personalities and lifestyles, we all have some things in common: We want respect from our kids. We want a peaceful home. Do what is in your power to attain this. That said, here is some practical advice. Ask if you can join a youth group at a local church. See if you can find a job. Summer is coming, and people want their lawns mowed, cars washed, gardens weeded. This will get you out of the house, and she will feel that you are supervised by your employer. At your age, if you act responsibly and respectfully, adults can be a source of socializing for you too. I know some great kids your age (who are homeschooled) who carry on intelligent conversations and are fun to be with. But choose your friends wisely, no matter what their ages are. It may well be that you are going to be homeschooled next year. If this is the case, don't make life miserable for your mom - that makes it miserable for you too! Your mom and grandparents are your family. Do your best to be peaceful and obey your mom. I really believe there is always a way to make something work. Whatever you do, don't throw away the relationship by severing ties or forcing her to let you move out. You are not old enough to make that decision. When your mother does things you don't like or understand, it does not constitute abuse. If she makes you mad, that's not abuse, or she could likely claim abuse from you too! Think of what her motives might be. Are there influences in your neighborhood that concern her? Have you set some precedent that would cause her to keep you on a tight leash? What factors in this situation are within your control? Do your part, and hopefully you and your family can find a workable arrangement, such as, you keep homeschooling if you can play soccer or have a part-time job or take music lessons. This isn't going to change overnight. Take baby steps, and do what you can. Email me if you want.
2016-05-21 22:35:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well
FIRST, ASK YOUR PARENTS!!
You really need to listen to your parents with this one.
SECOND, WHY? Are you in a hurry to start college?
If you are trying to convince yourself/your parents, here are some points to consider:
What were your scores on the ACT and SAT?
I don't think the extra year will necessarily improve your scores but really high scores show that you are College Bound
What Advanced Placement or College Credit classes can you take this winter and in your Senior year? Even it is very boring to you, knocking off 18 college credit hours is a good reason to stay in school
Have you talked with a school academic counselor? Is there an arrangement that allows you to attend community college classes for credit even before you receive your diploma (we have this option in suburban Detroit, work very nice!)
Or is there another reason you don't want to go to public school anymore?
(I'll guess you are not pregnant)
Have you considered transferring to another school in the district or to another school in another district? This may be plan B if your parents cannot agree to Home School you
Please be honest with your PARENTS, they got you this far, continue to trust them
I hope you go on to college and do great things, either way this breaks
2006-11-20 07:59:47 · answer #3 · answered by mike c 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is. I was home-schooled from K-12 grade. I got into college without any problems. As for the prom, some home-school groups have their own proms.
2006-11-20 09:25:51 · answer #4 · answered by clarinetist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue it at a regular school and arent you going to want to have experiences saying you joined the yearbook or played a sport.
2006-11-20 09:51:41 · answer #5 · answered by nabdullah2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may get homeschooled but it might be easier for you to just finish out in school. Then you will be able to get an actual diploma.
2006-11-20 16:52:28 · answer #6 · answered by justcurious 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's okay. Just make sure you and your parents look at all the regulations and what your long-term goals are and that you cover all of your bases.
2006-11-20 11:15:48 · answer #7 · answered by glurpy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can be homeschooled at any time.
2006-11-20 06:14:08 · answer #8 · answered by Melissa C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tough it out one more year. IT wont be so bad. Go to your prom and enjoy your last year.
2006-11-20 07:35:16 · answer #9 · answered by brownsugar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE READ THIS!!!!!!............
You don't want to be homeschooled trust me. I am and it's horrible. I've been wanting to go back to school since 2grade. Stay in school,graduate,and have fun. Because this is it and your out.
Do what ever you want.But what I really want you to do is STAY IN SCHOOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You won't regret it.
good luck
2006-11-20 09:36:10 · answer #10 · answered by *City_Chic* 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋