My mom make my life a hell.I dont know what i did to her.She freaks out whenever i am near to her.She treats me like as if i have no feelings.If i continue to live with her she will drive me nuts.She will suck up all the confidense in me.
I am still underage to leave the house.What should i do?
2006-11-20 04:18:34 · 7 answers · asked by Environmental lover 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Talk with a councilor, priest, someone who can help you as the situation continues. A family therapist can help both of you. Give it a try and if all else fails, remember that you are a good person and make your life the best it can be. Once you get to an age of responsibility- you can get out.
2006-11-20 04:23:41 · answer #1 · answered by what can i do 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where is Dad? While parents can make kids lives miserable, especially if alcohol and other drugs play into life. U mention she freaks out whenever your near her... have u struck or threatened to hit her?
Look when she is getting to u and u feel like your going to blow up. Put distance between the two of u. Go to your room, family members home to cool down and rethink things.
Your local mental health agency can provide no cost counseling. You can go to your school counselor, no child even if u getting to be 18 deserves to be belittled. At the same time, you have no right to cuss or belittle your parent. Don't feed into the ciaos.
If Dad can help u all sit and discuss things great. But if he's a screamer and hitter... then seek teen helpline, local mental health, even church clergy can offer help. You need to realize, your not the things she claims. You do have a choice, you can EXCEL and BE THE MAN/WOMAN u were put on this earth to be... or you can give up and be a thug. Parents aren't always the experts and they get in trouble just like kids. But u can rise above all adversities.
2006-11-20 04:34:34 · answer #2 · answered by Staci 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had to deal with the same thing in my life. Every time I get near my mom all she wanted to do was yell at me. I think it was because I wasn't doing my chours. But you should just stay in your room for a couple of days and wait till she cools off and do what your told. And after a while she'll eventually shut up. Trust me. I have been wanting to move for a long time and I'm still only sixteen. I have had to deal with same thing for that long. So yea, just keep away from her and she'll cool down sometime. I wouldn't expect soon though. Just wait.
2006-11-20 04:32:46 · answer #3 · answered by J M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Visit this site.
http://www.childhelpusa.org/get_help/hotline-overview
Here you can find a hotline help number, ring this number and you will get some help. You are being abused hon.
If your mom EVER physically hurts you, on purpose, go to the police. No matter what excuses she makes. Being young doesn't mean you have no right to help.
2006-11-20 04:25:34 · answer #4 · answered by Jason 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should try and talk to her face to face about it and let her know how she is making you feel. Ask her why she is treating you that way.. It could be that she is stressed out about other issues and just taking it out on you..If you bring it to her attn maybe she will realize what she is doing and change it..Good luck
2006-11-20 04:29:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom is a looser. She knows that about her life. She is taking it out on you. 2 choices... when she starts her blabber you start to scream at her on how YOU feel and how it's ruining you r life.. at once she realize she doesn't want to kill you with her crap. Or you just ignore her.
2006-11-20 04:27:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she envies you. Be good to her. If you know how to make her happy, make her happy. Otherwise convince her that you are doing everything you can to be good to your mother.
2006-11-20 04:25:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋