baby but he is afaird to ask her to stop she loves doing this he said that he could lose her to this other guy that likes her he races cars to my friend really don,t like it but they have been toghter for about 5 years please give him adive on how to get her to stop
2006-11-20 04:09:16 · 10 answers · asked by loverboy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well first thingsfirast how does he really know that he could lose her to the other guy second of all why ask her to stop doing thisif this is what she loves to do so much and sounds likes she good at it to and here we go again why does he want ababy does he really want one or is this just a trap to get her to stop well he should have a heart to heart talk with her and then maybe she will listen good luck
2006-11-20 04:45:14 · answer #1 · answered by dar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to force her to stop something that she loves so much because even if she does it she may regret it after a while and blame you for it!...my advise would be to talk to her and lay it out for her tell her exactly how you feel and see if she wants the same things that you do if not maybe the two of you should go your separate ways ...and please don't have children if you think she may be going to leave you for another man, there is no need to bring a baby into an unstable relationship wait until you know she wants to be with you before you have kids with her!
2006-11-20 04:11:56 · answer #2 · answered by CRYSTAL S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that would be very selfish of him to stop her from doing the thing she likes to do. Have they sat down and discussed the baby issue together? If not, then I think he should talk to her and see if thats what she wants to do. What makes the friend think that he is going to lose her because the other guy likes racing and he doesnt?
2006-11-20 04:17:06 · answer #3 · answered by inquisitor1125 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asking her to stop so they can have a baby would be about the most inconsiderate thiing he could do. She obviously loves racing. If he can't deal with it, then he needs to move on.
2006-11-20 04:12:28 · answer #4 · answered by mxzptlk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have kids without being married, that is how baby's daddy's drama starts and the reason Maury is still on the air.
2006-11-20 04:11:35 · answer #5 · answered by Jon C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should she stop? He hasn't married her, has he? If he wants a non-racer, he should find one, not demand a woman change if she's not willing to.
2006-11-20 04:12:03 · answer #6 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to drop her. He's not in love with her, he in love with what he wants her to be (a stay at home mom) and that's just not who she is.
2006-11-20 04:11:49 · answer #7 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he cant forse her to stop raceing. hes got to ask himself wuts more imporant his gurlfriend or that baby.
2006-11-20 04:13:08 · answer #8 · answered by kirstin p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woah..are old enough to have a 'friend' in this 'situation'?
2006-11-20 04:11:11 · answer #9 · answered by PeachyFixation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he needs to talk to her and see what she thinks
2006-11-20 04:11:29 · answer #10 · answered by tyree_dickerson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋