which would be best- never done oral for him before?
2006-11-20 04:08:26 · 20 answers · asked by jane w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-11-20 04:12:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Has he had oral done to him before? If so you might want to have him instruct you as to what he thinks feels the best.
Okay let's assume next that neither one of you have experience. You need to practice so find something to practice on. The best thing is one of the long novelty lollipops. You know the ones with the twist and the different colors that well look like male genitalia. Now I found one on the Internet through Yahoo search… this is pretty funny because this picture looks more phallic that I expected. Description is giant 7 inches of swirling colored swirl twist unicorn lollipop on a 12 inch stick. Our favorite…. (yet no kidding).. if you can find it at your local store looks like you can order it from here… might want to get a couple in case you bite one and half (if you do that you might want to stay away from your boyfriend for a little while until you practice more). The link is provided below.
With this you can really practice on technique. You don't have to worry about the taste because this is the taste a lot sweeter than the real thing. You want to suck lately (too hard can be painful), take it back as far as you can without gagging (it's never sexy throwing up on a guy). Practicing here with your lollipop way before and understanding your gag reflex is important. Keep the up-and-down motion of your head in rhythm. The rhythm is important as this as this will bring about his happy ending (slang for orgasm) much faster. Slightly pulling down on the shaft with your fingers near the base will also make the head more sensitive.
Once you got in this for a really becomes a question of dealing with that happy ending. For now you deftly want to inform your partner you want to know before he has his orgasm. If you're going to hang in there and keep the rhythm up and down as he is coming. Now it's going to get mighty wet, mighty salty and in some guys bitter (this is caused by a more alkaline shift in their pH). Some women love the taste of it, others tolerate it and still others hate it. The ones that love that probably eat school glue as a kid.
If you follow this your boyfriend will absolutely want you to do this again. Say you'll be glad to once he does it to you. If he doesn't know what to do, guide him telling what feels good and keep communicating with them. Telling us down that spot… that's it… oh yeah…. who's your mommy.
A couple of references can give you some more info.
Mark
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2006-11-20 05:01:40 · answer #2 · answered by GirlsTellAll.com 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Um they have a lot of information out on the net that you can look up for help in oral sex. They also have books that you can purchase as well. What I can tell you is pretend it's a lollipop and do it that way. Tell him that you've never done that before and have him show you what he likes. Hope this helps.
2006-11-20 04:13:01 · answer #3 · answered by acehernandez2006 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In another question you say you have been married three years and want to do something special in the bedroom for your anniversary and said should you bring a friend in.......!!!
Goodness, just give him oral - any old how - and he will think he's died and gone to heaven. Just keep your teeth out of it!
2006-11-20 04:14:42 · answer #4 · answered by Caroline 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be spontaneous. Give as good as you get.
Between consenting adults, everything is okay, except harm or humiliation to the other.
There is nothing wrong with oral. He must be physically clean, emotionally caring and receptive. Same as he should want from you.
2006-11-20 04:12:34 · answer #5 · answered by hls 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Go everywhere below the waist, back front and sides. Finish at the front but move around a lot. Then you make sure you get the same treatment. A moving tongue inside is the real end.
2006-11-20 04:16:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take your time its not something you rush.
kiss around the area first, get him excited by kissing the tops of his thighs and the groin area, play with his b***s witha hand.
take his p***s and slowly put it inside ur mouth cover your teeth with your lips try going slowly and concentrate at the top on the head of it. work your way up and down and mimic a pumping action whilst sucking with your mouth, when you need a break stop and just use your hand keep doing this his hips should let you know if he is enjoying it. if you get him to *** just stop and finish him off with your hand. i wouldnt recommend letting him finish in your mouth ist not a nice taste.
(try eating an oyster) its that bad.
Just tae ur time though you know what to do and enjoy it
have fun xxx
2006-11-20 04:16:28 · answer #7 · answered by Gary L 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Seen on a T shirt:
Describe the WORST BJ you ever had
On the back:
Terrific!!
You will do no wrong, believe me. For an extra boost, eat a mint beforehand - that will have him climbing the walls. Good luck (you won't need it)
2006-11-20 04:14:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
only 1 type of oral dumby, you take your mouth and wraps you lips around his penis and you suck on it, but make sure u play with his head alot cuz stupid gilrs play with him shaft and man it sucks. and o yea another thing make sure u dont use teeth, cuz i'm slaped a girl for that jk
2006-11-20 04:11:59 · answer #9 · answered by ahh help 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make lots of eye contact, and hum 'The Star Spangled Banner' while doing it.
2006-11-20 04:18:01 · answer #10 · answered by S K 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing you mean oral sex? well you just put you mouth on it and suck it, lick it, put his balls in your mouth spit on his **** make it nice and wet it comes natually trust me!!
2006-11-20 04:13:45 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋