ryt now this is long..
basicly i n 4 other mates went to this girls house for a night, to get pissed, her mum booked us a table at a.s.k n then we were gona get the booze, we got the booze (24 fosters, 8 bcarde breezers) n drank them at her house because there were cops out in the town, it was very fun but we made a lot of mess but maddie cleared this up cause she was cybre n her mum came back we went 2 her room n stayed there. then i got a call from an x-boy friend n said he wantes 2 meet us n get off wiv us, but we couldn`t go out cause her mum was back so he climbed through the bathroom window n came in her room, we hid him n his m8s in her cupboard 4 wen she canme up, her mum found out n got very angry, she is now going to call my parents who will be so so angry n i will never be allowed out again, how do i make it easer 4 me.
im only 13 n i need some advise n don`t post anything thts not gona help cause im not in a goo mood!
2006-11-20 04:07:49 · 20 answers · asked by x millie x 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
we all do stupid things.. but when you get caught, you get caught there is no getting ot of it... just take the punishment and deal with it... dont lie or anything for you will only be diggin a bigger whole for ur self if you get caught out.... good luck
2006-11-20 04:22:44 · answer #1 · answered by thenickistar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tut, tut. If you are looking to get pregnant then you are heading in the right direction. Drinking huge amounts of alcohol will certainly get you drunk, and is against the law. Sneeking horny boys up into the bedroom! things could have gotten very nasty, remember they may be your friends but sex is the answer and the key for them at this stage and age. Please be careful. Your parents are doing the right thing by being parents. Enjoy being 13, you are not an adult yet and you have got a few more years or so before being one. I didn't start drinking and clubbing until I was 17 and that is when I started having relationships. But I worked and paid rent, so I showed them I was independent and as an adult you have to be. So wait! You have a whole life ahead of you. Have fun, but, know what you are doing and consider the consequences before you put it into action. My parents worried I would be an out of control teen so they barely let me out. You will understand much more when you are older and have kids of your own preferably in the future, way, way in the future.
2006-11-21 17:45:41 · answer #2 · answered by bex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents have every right to be angry, for one thing you shouldn't have been drinking as you are underage and why did you sneak boys into the house?
At the time you might have thought that you were doing something fun and exciting, but supposing something had happened and the boys had decided to attack you or worse. You have to think about it sensibly your parents are going to punish you and if you really think about it you know that you were completely in the wrong.
There's nothing you can do to make it better except take your punishment and think yourself lucky that your friend mum came into that room when she did
2006-11-21 08:43:22 · answer #3 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you shouldn't of been drinking at 13 years old, and i agree with yer mates mum she should tell yer parents, i have a 12 year old and i would go mad if i found out she'd been getting drunk n seeing lads when i thought she was sleeping over at her mates, you are either going to become ill if you carry on drinking like that or get pregnant, either Way you have made yourself sound like an immature idiot on here, i hope your mum and dad can get it through to you that it is not cool getting peoples trust and throwing it back in their faces you should be ashamed, if your parents are good parents then you have spoiled it for yourself as it will be along time before they will feel they can trust you again and believe what you say!
2006-11-20 23:36:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody, that was cruel! I'm younger than you and I drink champagne, wine, whiskey, beer, cider, and I even had a few drops of vodka!
Let your parents finish telling you what they heard. Then you'll know how exactly to lie. Say you were only doing it because everyone else was. Then, say you were just watching when your friend helped your ex climb through the window. Basically, take credit when credit is due. You have to accept a certain amount of guilt. What I mean is, the only mistake you made was that you didn't report any of this, but just watched.
Hope this helps!
2006-11-20 04:34:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Millie, take your punishment and start acting a little better in future. Your friend's mum has a duty to call your parents. Tell your parents you are sorry, mean it, and start acting more sensibly. Eventually they will trust you and start letting you do more things.
If you carrying on acting the way you are you will end up in big trouble - probably pregnant. You are too young to be drinking. You will get problems with your liver!
2006-11-20 04:18:42 · answer #6 · answered by Caroline 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG I can't believe you're asking for help to make it easier on you!! 1) You shouldn't be drinking. 2) You shouldn't be disrespecting someone else's home. 3) BOYS?!?!
You're headed towards disaster and your parents should punish you in whatever form they see fit. And you should really use all that time to take a good English and grammar class. Believe me, you need the help.
Wise up little one.
2006-11-20 04:17:02 · answer #7 · answered by jackie_jackie_bo_backie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
To young to be drinking!Please do not ever do it again.AM a alcoholic that I am only 34 years old.I still drink but only on my birthday.It would mess your inside up and have to get everything taken out.Like your liver!!!! Maybe you have the craps all the time.This is no laughing matter honey.AM trying to make you stop drinking before you start!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Please tell your mom you will go to and AAA Meaning and take her with you.
2006-11-20 04:21:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confucius says: You are terrible disapointment to your parents. Your life is going to be a waste of time. You will not amount to anything.
This should help.
No one is frightened of a 13 year old retard who cant spell who isn't "in a goo mood" what ever that is.
2006-11-20 04:17:03 · answer #9 · answered by RED 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She's absolutely right to be angry, and needs to tell your mother! Take your punishment, you certainly deserve one! To make it easier on you, admit what you did, and that it was wrong. Your parent may go a little easier on you if you don't try to blame anyone else for what you chose to do. Good luck!
2006-11-20 04:14:22 · answer #10 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my daughter was like you at 13 so i packed her off to live with her dad for sum time, she carried on doing things at her dad now she is 14 last month and i just found out is 28 weeks pregnant, you kept going the way you are ie drinking and boys you dont want to end up like my daughter so your parents have every right to be mad. it was her 1st time and she was drunk and got pregnant so "wise up"
2006-11-20 06:41:32 · answer #11 · answered by LISA T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋