i have been married for 3 years, and on our anniversary i really want to do something special for my man in the bedroo department (if you get what i mean). any ideas, i thought of bringing a friend in but not sure?
2006-11-20 03:59:11 · 30 answers · asked by jane w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Too risky, hire a couple of prostitutes. Or to make sure he has a good time, let him call a couple of prostitutes he already uses. Good luck.
2006-11-20 04:03:54 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Know 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋
No third parties - BAD idea - how would you ever repeat it... You'd just start a slipperly slope and never get him back.
I suggest instead, candles, dinner, a movie (however blue you want it!) and introducing some other 'stuff' into the bedroom... A string of real pearls, manipulated the right way around him can be very effective. Take a mouthful of champagne and get inventive with it... Check out the back of Ann Summers or Harmony in London's Oxford Street. Or just revisit a favourite old place/time/fantasy, with all the trimmings and a few extras...
Have fun!
2006-11-20 04:13:37 · answer #2 · answered by SilverSongster 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bringing a friend in would certainly be an option. It's the fantasy of most men to be with two women at once. If it is something that you are open to and you have a willing friend, I would imagine it would be a welcome surprise to him.
If you can't find a friend, another option is to just spice things up a little bit. Try some fantasy role playing or perhaps be adventurous, like spontaneously making love to him outdoors or someplace where there is a chance of getting caught.
Variety, after all, is the spice of life!
You sound like a wonderful woman! He's a very lucky man to have you in his life.
Best of luck!
2006-11-20 04:05:30 · answer #3 · answered by Colonel Angus 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes, what a GREAT idea, been married three years, I will let him cheat on me for a present! are you MENTAL?
I couldn't do this, if you think you can handle watching your man have sex with someone else then go for it, but how you know he wouldn't think that you wouldn't care if he did it when you are not there?
To get through marriage, the best thing you can do is remeber that MEN DONT THINK LIKE US! So don't delude yourself into thinking that you know how he would act because we simply do not understand how there odd little brains act. NO NO NO, do something speciall but NOT THIS!
2006-11-20 07:09:44 · answer #4 · answered by CHARISMA 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whilst it is every mans dream it is every womans nightmare, how are you going to feel if he is so enamoured with your pal and you get the heave ho and he gets all the HO HO
You lessen yourself and as a married woman should you be more than enough for any man including your own
What will your man do after the 3some you don't want to go back to being "white van man" when you have had a taste of a Rolls Royce
2006-11-20 04:05:15 · answer #5 · answered by JAYFIRE 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
do not bring a third party. males like visual sex. get some really underwear. good bra that gives you a good lift to show off your boobs. sexy pants french knickers. underwear has to feel nice.good holdups or stockings. heels in shoe or long boot form.if you feel uncomfortable in bra/knickers. a nice body or basque. dim lights. and a mirror so he can see what you're doing and what you look like do it.can not give you instructions on how to give oral pleasure except.use your hands whilst he his your mouth at the same time. he his standing your kneeling when doing this. he can see all this in the mirror with all your sexy underwear on. it will blow his mind.ENJOY.
2006-11-20 04:41:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only 3 years married and thinking of bringing a friend. what are you thinking of, this marriage won't last if you have to resort to that kind of thing. Surely you can please him by yourself, you must know what makes him happy by now.. Good God I just don't beleive what people do
2006-11-20 04:12:54 · answer #7 · answered by braveheart321 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you bring a friend into your bedroom, you can wave goodbye to your marriage and the last 3 years.
Get a grip on reality.......He's YOUR husband...YOU pleasure him. If you don't think your able to..the message your sending out is that there are better folk than you out there.
Would you really be happy if he upped sticks and left with your friend if she was better than you in bed?
2006-11-20 04:12:10 · answer #8 · answered by audrey_o 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why would u want to bring another female in??? that s telling your husband its ok to be with another women, how would u feel afterwords? I bet you could please him by your self. Do a strip tees for him playing "leave your hat on" by either joe cocker or van morrison, not sure wich. get a teddy with garter belt black nylons with seam up the back,and high high heels.....good luck
2006-11-20 04:08:46 · answer #9 · answered by diamond 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
3 yrs married, and you are already wanting somebody else in the bedroom. u need your head examined.
have a nice meal at home followed by a romantic shower together, followed by.......... well you take control not A THIRD PARTY.
2006-11-23 01:16:52 · answer #10 · answered by purple diamond 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bring a friend in he could end up liking her more than you, try different sex positions or giving him a ******** and swollowing the lot up love.
2006-11-21 07:55:35 · answer #11 · answered by HI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋