If I showed confidence with my body while I was dating this guy, and he liked it, would it be hard for him to understand that I have weight issues about staying thin (pill popping)? He knows I used to model, but I don't anymore and I still have problems, but I never really showed it. But I feel like I need to tell him because while I was having this problem, he made me the most comfortable with my body. So would he understand, or would he think I was weak or less-confident/fake? I'm nervous to tell him. :(
2006-11-20 03:50:00 · 5 answers · asked by feisty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ITS NOT WEAK, ITS STRONG TO ADMIT THAT U EVEN HAVE A PROBLEM. THAT SHOWS ME THAT U REALLY CARE FOR THIS GUY AND U WANT IT TO WORK. BUT ALSO FIND HELP TO THIS PROBLEM AND MAKE SURE THAT U FEEL GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF AND THAT IT MAKES U HAPPY.
2006-11-20 03:58:37 · answer #1 · answered by tmacbaby80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably would see you as a lot more image-conscious than he originally believed. I think the "ignorance is bliss" clause can be used here. Just stay as confident as you can.
2006-11-20 12:22:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should tell him. I think that is something you keep to yourself. You never know how he might take it and there's a chance it could come back for you in the end. People tend to be funny that way.
2006-11-20 11:54:54 · answer #3 · answered by Mimy ImFurst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him and stop the madness with the pills. You are better than that. Get help if you need to.
2006-11-20 11:57:58 · answer #4 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest-its scary and some of them hurt us-but its so nice when you tell him and its also helpfull.
good luck-do it asap too-dont wait.
2006-11-20 11:58:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋