if you invited a girl back to your place after a nite out and she threw up over your bathroom floor, would you speak to her again/want to see her again?
im not asking for myself but a friend.
thanks xxx
2006-11-20 03:40:01 · 20 answers · asked by Pretty Little Girl xxx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He had to clean it up!!!
2006-11-20 03:45:38 · update #1
would you be a bit upset about it at first.
2006-11-20 03:46:21 · update #2
im the friend of the girl who thew up over the guys place.
2006-11-20 03:50:37 · update #3
would you be disgusted???
2006-11-20 03:51:15 · update #4
I was a girl in this position once. We are just as embarrassed as you are disgusted. We don't ask for another date, just for you to never mention the incident again. EVER. If we did have another date, I definitely won't be drinking that much!
EDIT:
I would be a bit disgusted & mad at first if I had to clean it up, yes. I would be fine after it was clean though. Cleaning up anyone's puke (including my family) makes me disgusted, so it doesn't matter whose it is. He probably isn't angry but it will be awkward to talk again unless someone makes a joke about it, which will lighten the mood & make them both less nervous to talk. Tell her, if she likes him to make a light joke of the situation the next time she sees him. Or say "Would you like to go out again if we do something besides go to the bar?" Just don't ignore it like it didn't happen.
2006-11-20 03:42:50 · answer #1 · answered by IMHO 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Providing that she ackowledged that she owed me one then why I should I not speak to her again? I would expect her to speak to me again. Works both ways.
However I would not want her to think that she can simply do something like that without making it up to me. This isn't an ego thing. I wouldn't want the woman to take me for granted or think I'm adopting some "nice guy unsexy provider role".
So the rules are 1. Apologise when you feel better. 2. Make it up to him - i.e. take him out and buy him a drink ...or better! 3. Show him that whilst you/your friend clearly has character and is fun you do have a dignified side and must be treated with respect (so act with a little more restraint this time round - well restraint with the booze at least!).
That last bit is important - respect him and he will respect you. Throwing up is not a big deal - it's what you do afterwards that really counts.
2006-11-20 05:32:53 · answer #2 · answered by Richard 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
accidents happen, i'd be cool about it. i'd make sure the girl got home safe as obviously she was'nt in a fit state to be doing anything. and yep i'd ask her out again. my fiance knocked over her drink and then went for a double by knocking over my drink on our 1st date. i discreetly got a towel from the barman and cleaned it up. were still together to this day 2 and a bit years later. then in the hotel room she spilled a bottle of millers all over the carpet and scraped the set of drawers trying to open another bottle using the edge of the drawers as a bottle opener. i had to fix the carpet and the drawers as well. she is a walking calamity and i would'nt want her any other way.
2006-11-20 04:11:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what she had to drink. You must remember that if a girl truly loves you, she won't say no to ANYTHING. She might have had drinks just because your mate offered her one. Now I am not being mean to your mate, because I am sure he didn't mean any harm, but that girl must either have the hots for him, or a serious case of alcoholism! Be nice to her, as I am sure she didn't intend to throw up on your kitchen floor. The poor girl was probably mortified, remember that!
2006-11-20 03:49:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It feels like he became into accusing you to cover up his very own guilt of doing something he should not be doing. needless to say he's mendacity with reference to the message being from a protracted time in the past and if he might desire to lie approximately something that small it makes you ask your self what else he's been mendacity approximately. If it have been me i might supply him a raffle to describe his self just to pay attention what he has to assert yet i do no longer recognize if i could be waiting to believe him. with the aid of fact each time he says he's doing something going someplace or is with somebody contained in the returned of my recommendations i'm going to be thinking "is he incredibly the place he says he's and who's he incredibly with is he out dancing with some stylish returned.
2016-10-04 04:16:03 · answer #5 · answered by boland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might make him think eewwwwwwww but if he really likes her then it shouldnt make too much or a difference once he gets to know her a bit better just tell her not to let it happen again else he might just see the relationship as cleaning up her sick. good luck babes xx
2006-11-21 00:32:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well thats the hazard of hanging out with drunks.
"Its a hot body, but it still has bodily functions" which includes and is not limited to puking.
So... if he likes her than sure, see her again.
2006-11-20 03:49:44 · answer #7 · answered by HE'S NOT INTO ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if this person likes the girl yes. make a joke out of it so she doesnt feel to embarrassed by it. If the girl is a lush then id watch out.
2006-11-20 03:47:52 · answer #8 · answered by me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely.
2006-11-20 23:35:54 · answer #9 · answered by DanRSN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes everyone's entitled to a mistake
2006-11-20 03:47:23 · answer #10 · answered by MANC & PROUD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋