i've been a single for about 4 years now. i am recently in a relationship but i can't help to be into the single lifestyle. it's hard not to be when your friends are all single and it seems that some of them are out to wreck your relationship. it even seems at times that i'm trying to sabotage our relationship. now my bf wanted to take 3 days to figure out what he wanted. i'm feel that i'm losing a very important part of my day. i apologized and begged him to stay but idk. i really don't want to lose him. what should i do?
2006-11-20 03:32:00 · 7 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a big part is that he's a freshman in college and i'm a senior in high school. at the same time he feels sexual frustrated because while his friends are getting hand jobs and oral sex from their gf's, he's stuck having to pleasure himself at times because those 2 things i just won't do.
2006-11-20 03:40:42 · update #1
you really need to figure out what you want. If you were truly happy you would not do ANYTHING to sabotage your relationship
2006-11-20 03:34:40 · answer #1 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The way that it sounds to me is that you have already had some experience in a solid relationship once before. Just because you are single now that does not mean that you have to do all of the things that your single friends are doing. If you truly want to have and keep this relationship going with your boyfriend, then you will follow and listen to your heart and soul and be faithful and confident in your relationship. You will not allow your self to be persuaded my your friends if being with your boyfriend is what you honestly & truly want.
Good Luck!
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2006-11-20 11:43:34 · answer #2 · answered by bigred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are confused. you can't string him along unless you know you are really going to be true in the relationship.
If your friends are harming the relationship, It may be time to re-evaluate you're friendships. If hes a good guy and you want him back, tell him exactly how you feel and if he cares enough...he'll give you a second chance.
2006-11-20 11:35:40 · answer #3 · answered by Kbailey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Issues are within you not the relationship. You can't resolve those kind of issues within three days. Step back find you and maybe he'll still be waiting if you just come with honesty.
2006-11-20 11:35:14 · answer #4 · answered by LOLO W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should he stay? Show him why he should stay. You commit to him or you don't. My friends would not come first. He would always. I would lose all of my friends if I felt was best for us.
2006-11-20 11:41:20 · answer #5 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you are sorry and you feel that you are losing a part of your life and if you really really love him then you would not cheat on him
2006-11-20 11:35:06 · answer #6 · answered by Kayla P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need grow up and be with you're man and leave those so called friends alone
2006-11-20 11:37:22 · answer #7 · answered by connie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋