i caught my bf looking at another woman private area. he noticed it cuz the way her pants were fitting. ok he then turns back and look again at her. now dont get me wrong i look at people too but not in a lustful way. if i see a nice looking guy and im with my bf i dont disrespect him by looking this guy up and down. ive talked to him about this before. this girls pants was jacked up in between her legs and he kept looking down there while i was standing there. so am i wrong for feeling this way? its a turn off for me when a man does that cuz then i dont want to have sex with him if his mind is on some other womans stuff. i havent talked to him about it this time cuz he always denies it. i wont even have sex with him cuz he hurt me and i just dont know what to do. if he checks woman out like that when im there what does he do when im not around?
2006-11-20 03:29:55 · 24 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen, when we r in love with someone , and if that boy looks to some other girl except us its obvious to feel bad. It's not of any disrespect or some bad illusion. Its just the feeling of heart. And the way u found him it says that he is bad. But we cannot directly no that a person is bad. But i feel like that . I can give u an advice . You do one thing , go to him and directly us whether he want to keep any relationship with u . If he forbids , take it that he is bad. And don't try to keep any relation with him. Please be strong otherwise u can never see this truth coming true infront of u. All the best . Thanks for sharing ur question and knowing our veiw. Pls notify me if i was able to answer ur question. Take care.
2006-11-20 03:43:54 · answer #1 · answered by Fariha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question you asked in the last line is a really good one. Ask him point blank the questions you currently have and the response he gives you can tell you where he stands. If he is argumentative and denies it when you know you have seem him do it more than once; the decision is for you to make. 1. Will you continue seeing this guy even though you know he looks at other women in this way or 2. Will you ask for a break? The decision is up to you, what ever you decide. Don't forget that once a person hurts your heart, the heart is not like a light switch and can't be turned on or off it takes time for it to heal once deeply hurt.
"People don't care how much you know until they know how much you care" (John Cassis)
Good luck what ever you decide
2006-11-20 03:40:21 · answer #2 · answered by dymps 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there some magic you expected when you two hooked up that would make all women on the planet unattractive?
Here's an example I use quite often...
To guys, women are like cars…
Guys will get the one that they REALLY want. We admire others as they pass by. We'll even look up different models on the web or magazines. We imagine what it would be like driving others. We even sometimes miss the good times and bad of previous ones. We can even pay money to test drive others (eww). BUT…We will NEVER give up or replace the one that we have and love.
2006-11-20 03:43:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow how old are you? yeah you sound young. OK well one thing you should know about men. We like to look.... Plan and simple. Its nothing against you but we cant help it. Its part of our genetics. Just because he looked at someone doesn't make not like you, on the other hand if was doing this right in front of you and didn't stop then yeah you may have something you would want to talk to him about. Just let him know how ya feel and dont hold back.
2006-11-20 03:38:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a part of nature, guys will always look at other women like hound dogs. They just don't have much tact about it. Its very bad however that he would blatantly keep disrespecting you in that way even when you talked to him about it. I think he is being rather rude to you and not considering your feelings. Though I have read in Cosmo that some guys stare at other women just to tick off their gfs and make them feel a bit jealous. Also guys are natural sick anyway, I'm sure he hasn't seen a girl showing camel toe before, so to him, this is new and he has to stare at it long enough to burn it into his sick mind. You can't really control that he thinks of other women. Its just how it is. Part of nature to think about others.
2006-11-20 03:36:15 · answer #5 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry this is a tough situation. If you have talked to him about this b4 and he continues to keep on doing it then i would say he is just using you for his sexual pleasure. I would say that you give him only a few more chances and if he continues to be a dumb *** and look at other girls then dump him and you will feel much better for doing that in the long run. Its not worth having a guy who is not commited to one woman. I hope things work out for you. Good luck
2006-11-20 03:34:58 · answer #6 · answered by 49er fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As I was dating my wife I also did this once. And right away she said something to me in a very overbearing way. I got the point on how disrespectful it was for her to go through that. From that point on I have always try to control my eyes. You have to let him know how you feel or he'll never see the need to change.
2006-11-20 03:45:04 · answer #7 · answered by Bigfish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a commun thing, just remember...men are not like women, they like to look, lets put in this way..a 90% of men will look another woman in that circunstances, that not means he is looking to have sex with her, is just the way it is, call it curiosity, lust, whatever...you need to have more confidence with yourself,maybe you dont like it but again, it doesnt mean he doesnt love you or he wants another woman.If he is with you...dont you think that is because he loves you or he loves the way you are???
2006-11-20 03:58:39 · answer #8 · answered by lovetoyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl ... it dont mean he dont love u or he is cheating on u ... Guys are just constructed like that ;p They look when they see a nice girl ... But put some nice things and show him that other guys can look at u too and like u :) show him that u are not worser than those girls;p
2006-11-20 03:35:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if thats all he is doing is looking theres nothing wrong with that. the guy obviously likes looking at girls. if u feel uncomfortable when he does that try dong it to him and see how it affects him. if it continues and becomes a serious issue between u 2 then i suggest u find another guy.
2006-11-20 03:36:22 · answer #10 · answered by me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋