My sister thinks she's totally in-love with this guy. He's SUPER NICE & GREAT that's not the issue.
1. She's never had a real boy friend before him.
2. She's pushing 22
3. He lives 7 hours away
4. She painlessly willing to wait till he finishes school... maybe 3 MORE years.
5. They haven't known one another for more than 1 year
I THINK IT'S NOT MY BUSINESS, BUT AS A BIG SISTER IT IS MY DUTY TO PROTECT MY BABY SISTER. I want her to have BOY FRIENDS and know what she wants and FEEL desperately in-love that she can't stand to be apart from him for more than 5 minutes -LIKE I DID! True love is out there. Setting at 21 for the guy no one else wanted isn't going to be WONDERFUL 6 months into a marriage.
2006-11-20 03:09:00 · 6 answers · asked by hbiggenes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you have true love confused with infatuation. Everyone falls in love a different way, so give it a rest.
2006-11-20 03:13:01 · answer #1 · answered by parental unit 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I do think you have a big reason to be concerned, but unfortunately, there's nothing you can do except let her make her own mistakes. It sounds like she's inexperienced and still got a lot of growing up to do. All you can do is give her your opinion and hope she listens.
2006-11-20 11:11:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he treats her right, why would you have a problem? I'm the BIG sister too. If my sister was dating a guy who treated her like gold, I'd stay out of it. Who says noone else wanted him? I think you need to butt out.
2006-11-20 11:17:17 · answer #3 · answered by Melissa R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for 1, long distance relastionships don't work. she is 2 young to settle for a guy she is hardly ever around and in the long run she is going to get hurt.
2006-11-20 11:14:40 · answer #4 · answered by bone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not to be mean but people make there own mistakes let her do if she loves this person then you would feel really bad if you messed it up let her learn on her own
2006-11-20 11:14:05 · answer #5 · answered by Kayla P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO OFFENCE BUT LET HER LIVE HER OWN LIVE SHE CAN ONLY LEARN FORM HER OWN MISTAKES!!!
JUST BE THERE BY HER SIDE WHEN SHE FU(KS UP
2006-11-20 11:13:45 · answer #6 · answered by ford_mud_runner 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋