me and my boyfriend want to get married but his sister and my brother had a thing a while back together. and she cheated on him . so now my bro i married to some other girl. but she (my bf sis) has two kids and he still loves thoese girls, and i want them in my wedding. to top it off my parents cant stand her . how can i have a wedding with out her knowing. she said they all have to get over it .i think thats an exuces for her to see my bro and his wife. i presonally dont care for her that much, and we have a beautiful little girl together, i feel bad for her because she would have two of everthing one with my family and his. help if you been thourgh this!!!!
2006-11-20 03:08:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Sorry, if your name is William, you'll have a very hard time marrying your boyfriend in the U.S.
You should move to Europe instead.
2006-11-20 03:09:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
What your brother did and his sister did has nothing to do with the two of you. No one should take away your happiness and your wedding day is yours and if no one can set aside their petty little differences for that 1 day, then elope!! A cruise with a couple of friends as witnesses is by far better than wasting your time and money on a wedding that last only a few hours!
2006-11-20 03:12:43 · answer #2 · answered by Mustang Sally 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weddings are meant for the ONLY for the bride and groom. It's like Christmas, everyone is usually alittle nicer(until the reception). Invite everyone you want. If these people are adults, maybe they should past all the drama and let you have YOUR day.
2006-11-20 03:13:55 · answer #3 · answered by X_YELLOWJACKET_X 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't been through your exact situation, but you can't hide it from her. You're going to have to be honest, let her know about it. Invite the kids - you're going to have to buy the outfits and make all the arrangements to get them there if she agrees to let them go. She will be pissed and hurt, but you are better off being honest saying that you are uncomfortable having her there and that you don't think it is a good idea that she attend given the circumstances.
2006-11-20 03:11:17 · answer #4 · answered by Sharp Marble 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your wedding; I say invite whoever YOU want to invite. Your guests should be grown-up enough to get along for a couple of hours, or at least politely ignore each other. So, if you want her there, invite her. If not, don't worry about it. It's your day and you shouldn't worry about petty in-fighting.
2006-11-20 03:12:28 · answer #5 · answered by SuperAmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you and your boyfriend have a child? I didn't know gay couples could adopt children, William. Good for you, I guess. Are you going to new jersey to get married, now they accept same sex couples? wish you luck
2006-11-20 09:15:42 · answer #6 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is your wedding ,you canh ask anybody you want ,
if people hate each other and start fighting ,this will be entertaining for the rest of the crowd ,that is what makes weddings fun.
ask everybody ,dont spoil the fun
2006-11-20 03:11:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is your wedding, you should be able to invite anyone you and your future husband want to be there, tell everyone to behave and how important it is for you to have everybody there, they should really understand, it's your day
congrats, good luck and have a great wedding
Anne
2006-11-20 06:56:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My head is still spinning from trying to sort out what you just said.
2006-11-20 03:57:52 · answer #9 · answered by Pink Denial 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go to the court house it would just be you and him and some one see you get married
2006-11-20 03:11:16 · answer #10 · answered by connie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋