Ok I like this guy whos is my friends twin brother and shes ok with it but he has never had a girlfriend and he said hes not to sure on what to do and I don't know how to help him. I don't know weather to just make a move and let him follow or what? Any one got any ideas let me know because I don't want to mess this one up, he to nice of a guy and a good friend. Thanks.
2006-11-20 03:06:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What exactly are you trying to get him to do? Be a 21st century woman and you make the moves and call the shots...trust me he'll learn!
2006-11-20 03:09:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have to make the first move by the sounds of it. Maybe you and your friend can arrange for the three of you to go to a movie or something and then your friend can say that she can't go at the last minute, leaving you and her brother to go together. Maybe a scary movie would be best so that you can hide your face in his shoulder or grab his hand at the scary bits. See what happens then.
2006-11-20 11:25:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it slow... spend time together and see where it goes. you don't want to risk the friendship. some guys are more shy, allow him to make the move with time...maybe you can push him a little bit :)
2006-11-20 11:09:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice,,for what its worth,,take it slow,,,when the time is right,and the feelings are the same you will know what to do and so will this guy,,,and if you say he is a nice guy,,take your time and don't mess up what could be a good thing,,,,,,,,,,a little more info would be nice,,such as your age's
2006-11-20 11:11:21 · answer #4 · answered by kkahn9dodge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say take it slow with him but maybe start to do a little flirting with him and see how that goes. If he responds in a good way then i would say go for it, if not then stick with going slow
2006-11-20 11:09:04 · answer #5 · answered by 49er fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest, and strait forward... talk to him...
don't expect him to make all the moves, you make some here and there...
remember two things...
first, without GOOD communication, any relationship will fail... and second, a relationship is 50/50, don't expect him to do all of anything, and don't do all of anything yourself...
2006-11-20 11:10:17 · answer #6 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats to mess up --- go out together get a coffee or something soft and talk --- get to know each other better
2006-11-20 11:10:01 · answer #7 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make the move and lead him for a min or so. but let mim lead then, bc his instincts will just kick in!!!!:P
2006-11-20 11:09:10 · answer #8 · answered by ooeeoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's ok to make mistakes... the world will not come crashing down around you.
2006-11-20 11:14:41 · answer #9 · answered by a1tommyL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a move and seduce him.
2006-11-20 11:08:56 · answer #10 · answered by s w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋