What do you think is happening when a young, rich, popular and handsome guy who can have a supermodel for his gf is attracted to me (ok pretty with average body but short) from the first time he laid his eyes on me and everytime i'm within his sight he has to look at me. When i stood next to a big breasted tall beautiful girl he only had eyes fo me...what is this? he's my boss...my position is pretty lowly...way low.
2006-11-20 03:03:30 · 13 answers · asked by shortbecometallat19 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's always nice to me and he has been giving me signals which i ignore...sorry i'm not his secretary...even lower than that!
2006-11-20 03:09:25 · update #1
he's not married and not perverted.
2006-11-20 03:11:28 · update #2
to Susan C: he doesn't have a GF...if u don't understand the question don't answer!
2006-11-20 04:24:02 · update #3
I advise not dating your boss. Things go wrong and you get fired.
2006-11-20 03:05:56 · answer #1 · answered by D.I.L.L.I.G.A.F. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question is why do you care? Why are you looking back at him? If he has a girlfriend then he has a girlfriend and why would you put yourself in a triangular mess like that, especially at work? Do you have some twisted low self esteem issue that if you get a good looking guy to ask you out or just have sex with then that makes you better than you think. He is your boss. If you have feelings for him it could be just because he is your boss. he has a girlfriend, he is your boss, you work for the same company ....sounds to me like a good relationship to throw yourself into...........since you have a hard time deciphering reality from fantasy, that was sarcasm.........again why would you put yourself in a stupid situation and why do you care why he is looking at you, he's your boss, he has a girlfriend and bottom line is you deserve more than just a good looking jerk who stares.
2006-11-20 03:21:43 · answer #2 · answered by Susan C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll tell you something. This guy sees something in you obviously. All guys don't go for the outward appearances. Large breasts, beautiful face and slim waists aren't in anymore. Guys have now realized its the aura of the person that really counts. Not the physical traits. So, don't think of this as being a bad thing. Give this thing a try. So what if he's your boss. Believe me honey, you're worth it.
2006-11-20 03:08:27 · answer #3 · answered by Just get it over with already!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You needed to be a little more detailed in your question but make sure he is not married, a big pervert, or anything like that. Don't be so hard on yourself about your looks, Apparently he thinks you are pretty darn good-looking. Proceed with caution my dear.
2006-11-20 03:09:03 · answer #4 · answered by Mustang Sally 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not a good idea to even be thinking what you are thinking! Remember some girls that are big breasted (blonde) and DUMB as a box of rocks. I don't advise you to date your boss!!! Looks aren't everything having brains count also. Keep it completely professional!!!!
2006-11-20 03:14:19 · answer #5 · answered by lucyloulady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Steer clear of this Casanova, he is looking for a quick sex fix and he is manipulating you into thinking that he only has eyes for you. This man will make your life hell if you sleep with him so be aware this is the oldest trick in the book and he is banking that his power in the company will grant him power over you body.
2006-11-20 03:07:23 · answer #6 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this guy is your boss he should show more respect than that. As far as I'm concerned he's probably looking to get laid, and nothing more.... Good luck.
2006-11-20 03:08:15 · answer #7 · answered by FearDragons 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of people have "types". A certiain something about someone else that attracts them to that person. Maybe you have what he likes. I know I love guys who have dark hair and dark eyes. I always have.
2006-11-20 03:07:04 · answer #8 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to bang a secretary probably always been his fantasy
2006-11-20 03:06:51 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm it means dat he likes u but i dont dink dat u shuld date him cause if da both of u go out and something goes wrong with ur realtionship hes not goin to be happy with it nd dings at work will not be da same as u expect it to be!!!
2006-11-20 03:09:02 · answer #10 · answered by emmaline_tran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋