ummm...
is okay to have a crush on someone 10 years older than you, or is it wrong to the fullest part of law??
He knows I have a crush on him it dosent bother him just his girlfriend of 3 months!!!!
2006-11-20 03:02:36 · 20 answers · asked by skull 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well that all depends on how old you are! If you're quite young, ten years is a BIG span of maturity and experience, even if you're 18 and he's 28. Someday when you're 38 and he's 48 it won't be such a big deal. Since you mentioned law, I assume you're underage. It's okay to have your crush I think, I mean it's natural, but if he EVER takes advantage of your crush, that makes him a BIG PERVERTED JERK!
But really, make sure you're hanging out with some boys of your own age. It would be best, and it might get rid of this crush.
2006-11-20 03:07:06 · answer #1 · answered by carrieinmich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how old you are. If you're middle aged or older (but it doesn't sound like you are), then no. Otherwise, I would say yes it's wrong, and even somewhat sickening . . . not to mention it's surprising his current girlfriend is worried about that kind of kiddie crap. I would say grow up and find someone your own age.
2006-11-20 03:07:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have a crush on anyone you want but it could be wrong by law if your a minor for you or he to act on it.
Even if you're not a minor though you should not do anything to ruin his relationship with the other girl unless she is a horrible person and treats him badly.
2006-11-20 03:05:51 · answer #3 · answered by DiRTy D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how old you are. If you are mid to late 20's, then it's ok. You have your life pretty much on track. If you are not that old, you are looking for more of a 'daddy' figure instead of a partner. Try to take a 3rd person view and look up the difference.
2006-11-20 03:08:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
crushes are okay, but if you're under the age law then don't act on it. LOL. I had a crush on my second grade teacher, he was 21 at the time. When I was in highschool he started hitting on me, but as much as I wanted to, it wasn't right... but I wouldn't mind if he hitted on me now,
2006-11-20 03:05:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is ok. I had a boyfriend once that was 24 years older than me. We didn't last, of course, but I've always felt attracted to older men. My bf is 47 & I'm 32. I just hope you are not underage, my dear.... Good luck.
2006-11-20 03:12:45 · answer #6 · answered by candywhiteandrew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, my bf is 19 years older than me. But then, I'm not a teenager so it's not against the law.
2006-11-20 03:05:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
F**** his girlfriend...if u like him then thats okay...i liked a guy 7 years older than me and in the end we went out for three weeks and he was a great guy...so foloow your heart and try to win his..
2006-11-20 03:09:01 · answer #8 · answered by RockStar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definantly not wrong! a lot of women like older guys! it doesn't even matter! the only problem is his girlfriend, so don't try to make a move on him unless he's single.
2006-11-20 03:06:03 · answer #9 · answered by musiclover265 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-04 04:14:16 · answer #10 · answered by boland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋