I think i'm falling in love with this guy, i know, and i'm 95 percent sure, he likes me too. My problem is that i haven't spoken to him for 2 days, and i really miss him, i don't want to call him, i don't want to look too interested, but i don't want to loose him either. I know i should relax, and probably everything is going to be all right, i just don't know how to relax. Why isn't he calling or something? I'm not very good figuring these things out.. i'm afraid i gave him mixed signals, or what? If i did it wasn't intentional, because i like him.. Is that possible, that he changed his mind? I mean, everything showed, he liked me too. Maybe HE doesn't want to look too intersted. What sould i do? (am i overreacting? how can i relax?)
2006-11-20 02:59:35 · 12 answers · asked by canabis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
better make the call,,why wait if you really feel that the way you say you do,,do wait a minute longer,,,,as a male I would welcome the call from an interested female!!
2006-11-20 03:03:27 · answer #1 · answered by kkahn9dodge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, sweetheart. It sounds like you are just the tiniest bit obsessed there. Listen up, kiddo, you say to yourself that you do not need him at all. Say to yourself that you are an independant indavidual, and believe it. He may start calling you when he realises you aren't desperate over him anymore. He may feel a bit freaked out if you REALLY love him, and remember, love is a strong word to use, so take it slow. (I don't know why, but a girl who can stand up for herself is a big turn-on)
2006-11-20 11:21:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are over reacting - if you were my mate i would bill u a zoot smoke up and make you chill out a bit and relax man. guys play games, its all part of it. just stop stressing - i know easier said than done. if you wana call him tonight then call him, sounds to me like he wasnts to be chased a lil bit. so do it, be cool fun and flirty, not negative in any way, dont ask him why he aint called, as you have been far too busy to even notice he aint called.....do you get it sweetie? i hope so xx
2006-11-20 11:05:03 · answer #3 · answered by Ms.Trouble 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your sure he likes you too then hes probably waiting for u 2 get in touch, hes probably thinking the same as u he doesnt want u thinkin hes 2 interested, hes playing it cool.
2006-11-20 11:16:37 · answer #4 · answered by victoria w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
babes 2 dats is nothing to worry about if it becomes 28 days like my promblem then he is not interested but 2 days yes you can relax just remember you will probally see him soon and it will be great. just relax good luck babes xx if you cant relax just text him something like hi babe how has your day been just to let him know your thinking of him xx
2006-11-21 08:04:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right he probably does not want to be too pushy and is scared that if he makes a move too soon you will run away, if i was you if he did not get in touch soon i would ring him even if i felt weird. sometimes you have to take a bigger step then you want to but it works out better. good luck
2006-11-20 11:26:45 · answer #6 · answered by crystal clear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make the call you have nothing too loose and life is too short to let time slip you by
2006-11-20 11:16:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not just give him a quick text just something like hey how are you? that way he knows your still thinking of him but its not a big phonecall. then you can see by his reaction what to do next.
2006-11-20 11:05:59 · answer #8 · answered by dubgirl26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alright calm . breathe, relax no one can advise you as we are not in this particular situ ation,and don't know you or guy. you need to sit down and talk to thjis guy ask him out and take it from there
2006-11-20 11:05:07 · answer #9 · answered by jinx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chill. ask him out (casually) for a drink/coffee/chocolate bar, whatever. if he acts like he likes you on you casual meeting, then ask him to be your boyfriend or whatever you like. or you could just get off with him and take things from there.
2006-11-20 11:04:54 · answer #10 · answered by Eden B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋