My boyfriend of almost a year and a half recently told me he wanted to take a break because he's not sure what he wants right now, and he's not sure if our relationship was making him unhappy or if it was something else. I'm almost 100% sure that it's not a matter of him wanting to see someone else, because he also said that he's not sure if he wants to spend Thanksgiving with his family; he's thinking about skipping out and spending it alone. He's been acting puny and depressed lately. I feel like we had a very good relationship, and I wish he would let me be there for him, and he told me that he still wants me to be there for him ( I kinda have to be around anyway, we live together.) How much should I "be there" for him, since he needs a break from us, and is there anything I can do to make him see that he may be happier if he just let me be his girlfriend like I was before?
2006-11-20 02:56:08 · 4 answers · asked by *~HoNeYBeE~* 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Going through the same thing right now....
I'm giving it time, and then hoping that it all works out.
2006-11-20 03:01:13 · answer #1 · answered by Stacey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey - he wants to be on a break because there IS someone else. That is why he is not spending Thanksgiving with his family - he is spending it with the new lady. Some men are real bastards!
2006-11-20 03:00:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give him his space but then let him know that you will be thre for him when he needs you and he will be bcak if you are the one he loves
2006-11-20 03:00:47 · answer #3 · answered by dar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go sleep over his place.
2006-11-20 02:58:03 · answer #4 · answered by s w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋