1.What kind of reaction would a girl give once the Guy takes the Initiative
2. What would the positve and negative reactions from the girl be ?
3. How should the Guy go about if he gets a positive reaction?
4. any other tips
2006-11-20 02:19:28 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No two people are the same - you must find out what kind of girl you are dealing with at the time and aim to optimise your behaviour in relation to what she is hoping for.
This means not saying anything specific (and not plunging into big topics too soon, though it helps to have a large selection of situation-trelevant topics to keep you and her talking). Rather just allow yourselves to get used to each other, and to having fun times together, to sharing experiences you both enjoy.
Generally girls like guys to take the initiative but not in fast steps and not until she has laughed and smiled with you - rather, work your way towards your first kisses/cuddles on the 3rd-4th date (at the very beginning when you first see each other one-to-one and with a statement about how she makes you feel good and you are glad) and first deeper intimacies on perhaps the 7th-10th date (on average), depending.
Just keep talking and listening (and looking at things together in relaxed quiet).
There are hundreds of hints that you may pick up from the girl, including how much she looks at/faces you, how much she laughs/smiles with you, whether she puts her arms or hands between you and her, whether or not she has started telling you things she would not say to a stranger on the train, things of trust, whether she is enthusiastic about further dates, including making suggestions of her own (this shows she is comfortable).
Remember partnership is companionship and support, assistance and relaxation.
2006-11-20 03:19:55 · answer #1 · answered by Wise Kai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-17 10:16:38 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Girls DO NOT like to be bossed aorund. Treat her like a queen, and show exactly how you feel.
2) Be a gentleman. Girld love the simple things, like if you open the door for them, pull out thier chair
3) Don't be too demanding, otherwise she'll think you want sex, and nothing else. That is the wrong impression to give
4) Don't get over confident when you get a posative reaction. She will think it was just an act.
NEGATIVE REACTIONS:
Rolling eyes
giggling nervously
akward silences
figeting with hair, earrings ect
POSATIVE REACTIONS:
Blushing
Laughing
smiling constantly
seemingly *intrested* In your eyes
Eyes are the window to the soul. Look deep into her eyes, and smile. With some luck, she should smile back.
I hope it helped!
2006-11-20 03:45:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Steps to 'seduce a girl'--interesting question I must say. First of all, I suggest you be willing to take things slow. You'll increase the expectations for the both of you that way. Start with the moment you pick her up and be willing to go thru all the 'southern courtesies' that other guys often overlook. Open her car door throughout the evening, get the door to that 'special restaurant' that you plan to take her to, help her with her coat (on and off), pull out her chair when you sit down at the table, be familiar with the menu and order a special wine if you know she likes wine, you can arrange with the waiter ahead of time to bring her flowers (or just one flower would be nice), gaze into her eyes during the dinner conversation like you're absolutely captivated, compliment her in clever ways, be sure to lightly touch her hands or arm during the course of conversation and make sure you're comfortable (it'll show). That's all the tips I can think of--good luck. She sounds like a special girl. Just make the effort to be a fun date and take things as they come.
2006-11-20 02:28:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
All this moral advice! I believe that I have high morals, if I've agreed to go on a date then I would expect the guy to try and sleep with me. If he didn't I would be put off completely!! That's not to say that I definitely would sleep with him on a first date, but I don't want to go out with a reserved man. I would rather be thought of as irresistible!
Let her know that you are interested, but don't over do it.
If you really can't tell if she is interested in you or not, after you have made some blatant come ons then ask her. She could just be shy, or not very experienced in dating etc.
Basically don't do anything she doesn't want to do, but if you really want to, ask or try. But be prepared for her to say no. You don't get if you do not ask!
2006-11-20 02:34:10 · answer #5 · answered by As You Like It 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you gotta ask your probably not any good.
answer for 1 & 2 is most likely a kick in the balls
answer 3 is-you won't, but IF you do-reaction is sex
if you need more past that-then REALLY aren't getting anywhere
2006-11-20 02:23:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's impossible to seduce a woman she'll either like you or not. take the initiative on meeting, kiss her. don't be pushy or needy let her control the pace of the date. at best you might get lucky or a second date at worst you'll part your seperate ways no loss to either party.
2006-11-20 03:32:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you publicly admitting that you would seduce a girl on a first date by any means possible. You do lack morales, do you not?
2006-11-20 02:23:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-20 02:27:29 · answer #9 · answered by wayfaroutthere 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Step 1. Lots of alcohol
Step 2. Remove your pants
Step 3. Have her blow into your breath-alyzer
Step 4. Drop her off and go home to sleep.
2006-11-20 02:39:19 · answer #10 · answered by John H 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋