i meet him in cafe a few days ago then his come here everynight before i goin home.until now his calling and talking with me ...i already knowns that his married and it is secret i never tell anybody here even my sister.
2006-11-20 02:05:18 · 29 answers · asked by mercy_cristo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
No, unless he is divorced you shouldn't continue. Would you want to be with him one day and have his children hate you because of what you did to their family? I would tell him you can't see him anymore as long as he is married.
2006-11-20 02:07:51 · answer #1 · answered by CarolinaGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly you already know the answer to that one if he does it to her he will do it to you sometimes for people it is a game and especially when they find someone weak enough to accept it so don't be weak have some morals and tell him hey this bull is not right be a man be honest and basically he is repulsive you know as well as I do that stuff like what he is doing causes people to commit suicide believe me I lost a family member over it you still have time and the strength before he ropes you in too good luck
2006-11-20 02:11:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
HELLO???? He's married - why would you stay with a jack *** that cheats on his wife and family???? So let me guess - he is going to leave her to be with you right? And then what? Start the cheating game all over again with someone else?
Leave him alone - he already has a family. Besides there are plenty of unattached men out there - find one of your own!
2006-11-20 04:00:11 · answer #3 · answered by Just asking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have dated a guy who was divorced and had a little girl. Yes, I know I'm very young, but I really liked him. However, his ex gave me alot of problems and he ended up moving out of state to get away from her. I could'nt go w/ him b/c I was in school. But you have to make your own mind up in your situation.
Oh yeah, that reminds me, why are you calling him your b/f if you just met him? I hardly think he thinks of you as his girlfriend.
2006-11-20 02:08:23 · answer #4 · answered by JenJen♥♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you need to talk your feelings out with him and tell him you can't be in a relationship with a married man cause what if ya end up getting married he might do the same thing to you that he did to his other wife
2006-11-20 02:09:14 · answer #5 · answered by tyree_dickerson 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do see getting out of this situation with this man?
Where do you see the three of you 1 year from now?
Tough questions, but you must be realistic with yourself.
I believe in the old saying, "If he cheating on her...he is going to cheat on you."
2006-11-20 02:10:11 · answer #6 · answered by Kathy E 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He cheats on his wife and if he ever left her for you - guess what will happen to you - If that's the kind of relationship you want then have at it - He's only in it for one thing (Piece Of A**) and if that's what you want to be - then enjoy
IMO - I think it's pretty stupid to be even dating him to begin with
2006-11-20 02:10:06 · answer #7 · answered by Mad Marvin 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A guy who is already married....... and have one child also....
think once only if he can cheat his wife and child..........
then how come not possible that in near future he 'll cheat you.....
so think..... and stop spoiling your life for him....
because........ Allah(swt)(GOD) has given us knowledge to differentiate between right and wrong..... and we all know.. that it is wrong.........
so stop thinking about him........... as hez not sincere.... take care
May Allah (swt) guide you for the rest of your life
2006-11-20 02:27:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if he doesn't stop calling you, you're going to expose this secret loud and clear. If he wants to talk to a woman, tell him to call his wife.
2006-11-20 03:10:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should contunue your realtionship with him even though he aleady is married and has a child because soon enough youll be married and have children and regret not being his friends anymore
2006-11-20 02:08:20 · answer #10 · answered by Sammi Poo 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋