Should more be done to protect women in abusive relationships.?

Question

The minute you try to leave the abuse gets worse, but I HAVE
dumped him anyway, so how do you survive after the abuse..

Answer 1

There's some good articles on how to leave an abuser in lovefraud.com

My husband is a stalker too but I've gotten numb to his ridiculous accusations and constant threats. He took every dime of my retirement account and left me destitute in hopes I'd be too dependant on him to leave. I left 2 months ago to stay with family.

Know this- you are a target, not a victim. Abusers use your compassion, humanity, and commitment to the relationship AGAINST you! They are not human. They have no empathy. They are empty and hollow INSECURE people. They need to control you, own you, in the worst way.

Never look back.

Answer 2

You are at more risk once you leave. Al Gore, yes Al Gore did something for women who have been abused and threats to there life. Does anyone know what this is? Vice Presidents of some parties, do something. Of coarse not the present one, greed and more greed. But, speaking from experience - get a restraining order on him ASAP, that way if he contacts you, you have something to back it up. And the law boys can do something.

Answer 3

You move on, and you do better.
I have less money, and more peace.
I struggle to pay the bills, but now, I enjoy being home.

The peace is worth it.

Get a protective order- yes, it is just a piece of paper, but he can and will be arrested for violating it.
Alway be aware of your surroundings -- never let him get close to you, even if he seems to have changed.
Never be alone with him, anywhere.

Never, ever open the door if he shows up- call 911 immediately.

And, always carry a copy of the protective order with you. He can't be arrested if you don't have it, even though the police are supposed to get a copy. (We don't always get them fast enough)

Answer 4

There are now laws against assault, harassment, stalking, and even verbal abuse... How about next we outlaw dirty looks?

Pack up and LEAVE... Forget the warm fuzzy duckies and bunnies... If he continues to stalk you buy a gun, shoot him in the leg, that usually gets the idea across that the honeymoon is over... once he is out of intensive care.

Answer 5

I went through this. My family was a huge support system for me. When he started stalking me I moved from Alaska to Mississippi. He didn't have the money or the guts to come down here where all my gun toting relatives lived. I say look to your family for support and always remember it was never your fault some men just have anger issues and think its cool to hit women.

Answer 6

Yes more should be done to the women who keep going back after they have called the law and press charges.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

I HELLBENT would leave after the first slap and not let it escalate into a beating so I have no respect for the idiot women who stay in those relationships.

Answer 9

well you should see a therapist or like a counselor or something like that and go to group therapy it will help you sooooooooo much

Answer 10

I have been there. I was afraid to leave. More should be done.