why is he now calling me and telling me he loves me we live together for 2 months and he was good only if i was mad at him he did make changes in the way he was i cant say he was horrible cause he wasnt he never scream at me but sometimes he use to make little sarcastic comments like women should stay home and clean i am a corporate coordinator and he was a waitress i think that bother him i ask him alot of times but he always say no the thing is he was sarcastic and likes to go drink with his friends all the time also works 12 hours a day which it really doesns give us anytime i really didnt like that i love him alot but should i give him another chance he is begging or should i let him suffer another week and then go back or should i just stay away i dont want to keep loving him this much and i need time but i dont know if i want to go back i need help please im so confused ?
2006-11-20 01:21:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i just feel like he takes me for granted sometimes and i deserve so much more then what he does for me i really feel neglected and he knows how i feel and he try to change but sometimes he goes back to the same old ways and i hate that he sending me text messages telling me he dont want to loose me but i just feel like is always gonna be the same and as much as i love him i just feel like he is never going to grow up and ttake responsabilities i guess i just expected too much and right now im feeling horrible because i know he loves me and i love him too but i just dont want to make a mistake of staying with him because we love each other right now and someday just realize that we are 2 complete different people i like opera he likes cumbia i like to compromise but he doesnt seem to i rather let him find someone else because i love him so much i dont ever want to make him miserable but at the same time i miss him so much i just feel like leaving work and go to see him but cant im lost
2006-11-20 03:49:42 · update #1
I would give it a little bit of time and then ask yourself. Are you ready to give this another try or are you starting to feel better and are able to move on?
Someone once told me people break up for a reason and that they should always stick to their original idea. Of course this is not always the case but just do what you feel is right deep down.
Hope everything works out!
2006-11-20 01:42:21 · answer #1 · answered by Minouners 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the same thing you told us. If he's willing to change to make the relationship better than give him another chance. Just ask yourself is it worth it?
2006-11-20 01:26:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't go back to him, he will lower your self esteem, keep rising to the top, move on in your life.
2006-11-20 01:23:32 · answer #3 · answered by madtyga2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋