I'm with a girl that I don't get to see that much and she lives miles away. I'm going away to art school early next year and she'll still be in high school we broke up once cuz she didn't want me to dump her when i left cuz I found some other gurl i liked but i told her that wouldn't happen. I love her and at the same time I don't know if I want to be with her forever like she wants. she didn't say she wanted to get married or nuttin' like that but she said she didn't want to lose me again said i'm with her forever unless i dump her cuz she feels bad dumping guys. i feel like sometimes we shouldn't have gone back out. She said i'm different than any other guy she's been with who just used her. I'm a virgin and we haven't even done anything like that just kissing. To be honest I'm not worried about it either. I do hate that she's been with other guyz and said she had sex like 12 times cuz that bothers me. but I want to know if I should let her go or not when i have to leave for school.
2006-11-20 01:13:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should let her be her and you need to find out who you are as well
2006-11-20 01:15:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are still young and new to this relationship. Yeah she might have said there where 12 times, but really do you know that for sure? You sound hesitate about this girl. Most likely she is not really for you. You need to explore and what better way to do it then art school. Don't hang on to something you are not willing to put a lot of time in.
2006-11-20 01:18:52 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would stay with her get her a promise ring and that does not mean your engaged it just means that if she excepts it that she promises not to be with any other guys while you are off at school and if you find someone else later on let her go and if you really love her you will have to look past the fact that she has been with other guys cause that is part of life
2006-11-20 01:18:30 · answer #3 · answered by angie f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, nothing wrong with being a virgin. Amount of sex (in her regards) should not be discussed. Only that it was "safe" sex, using condoms. Part your ways as b/f and g/f but stay friends, keep in contact, concentrate on your studies.
2006-11-20 01:19:29 · answer #4 · answered by nanny4hap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Part as friends, and concentrate on school.
2006-11-20 01:16:21 · answer #5 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When in doubt, throw them out!
2006-11-20 01:17:27 · answer #6 · answered by Mustang Sally 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋