help me why is it love didn't not come my way?im 18 now, i always search but i coudn't fine one,,im very hopleless bec. since then i've been longing to have a bf but i always end up dissappointed! i envied lovers around and every romantic scene i had witnessed i always got jealous and back of my mind is saying that i want to have the same i want to have a bf too but until now nothings change i'm still waiting and longing for him to come,,people always say that i have the looks why still no bf?i'm very humialiated at times i heard them say this,,what will i do?help!
2006-11-20 00:34:24 · 16 answers · asked by astrid23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetie , u r stll very young .. tym will come wn u least expect him .. Juss be very patient ,, U will meet the ryt person at the tym ..
2006-11-20 00:48:34 · answer #1 · answered by mommy2be 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a very big believer in faith.. so what i am going to say revolves around that. and i don't want to sound like i am putting you down or something so if i do i am very sorry.. Love takes time and if you are looking i found out that it don't come.. i was looking for my true love since i was 15 years old.. and i finally just stopped and believe it or not not to long after i stopped looking I found him and we have been together for over 7 years married 4 years and have beautiful children.. and i found that if you have movie type fantasy's about how romantic a guy can be lower them a tiny bit... cause about 7 times out of 10 there not like that... i hope that at least some of this helps...
hopeing you find your love..
2006-11-20 08:44:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everything happens for a reason, but maybe you should start to go out more and not look so hard for it once you start going out someone is bound to have their eyes on you. If you know someone that your interested in then try throwing some hints to that person, but don't sweat the little stuff love will find you when the time is right.
2006-11-20 08:41:18 · answer #3 · answered by homeiggyred 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take look in the mirror. Are you a fat pig, have hairy arm pits, breath stink or what. There is something wrong with you that keeps guys from coming up to you because if you were cute, and have a nice body than there shouldn't be any problem.
2006-11-20 08:42:26 · answer #4 · answered by Fred B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best time to find love is to stop looking young lady. you can see yourself in a rush but hey, you got unlimited future ahead! If boys arent coming in your life now, is simply because your heart is not ready. sometimes we sent signals on people that are incorrect. check your body language, does it call for "real love" or "just to get laid". Attraction doesnt come from physical, it comes inside of you.
2006-11-20 08:45:24 · answer #5 · answered by REBEL SAINT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love comes when you least expect it atleast that is what happenes to me and i've been with my bf for a year and 5 month
you just have to wait dont think about that do other things go out with your frinds try meeting new people
2006-11-20 08:38:37 · answer #6 · answered by sofitaps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not finding love because you keep looking for it.
It comes when you least expect it.
TRUST ME.
My boyfriend and I were friends for a long time. All that time, he was right under my nose.
Btw, I doubt that anybody ISN'T single at birth. LOL.
2006-11-20 08:38:30 · answer #7 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up you have a lot of time to find that mr. right. Getting a boyfriend to so usely doesn't work out the way that you want.
2006-11-20 08:40:36 · answer #8 · answered by ranchforman57 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we just try too hard, and our expectations are way too hihg...You are very young yet, why hurry? Are you first in Love with yourself? You have to KNOW how to love unconditionally first, then comes a relationship...
2006-11-20 08:38:21 · answer #9 · answered by daiseydixie6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAYBE YOU CAN MEET SOMEONE ON THE INTERNET .
A GOOD SITE IS plentyoffish .com
THIS IS A FREE DATING SITE .
SIGN UP AND TALK TO ALL THE BOYS YOU WANT
2006-11-20 09:06:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋