Shared custody.
2006-11-20 00:13:20 · 12 answers · asked by wondering 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no way to answer that question unless you can find somebody to ask who knows the family personally. It depends on a lot of factors, such as the maturity level of the kids, the messiness of the divorce, how well the divorced couple gets along, etc.
2006-11-20 01:11:58 · answer #1 · answered by redhairedgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The collage kids probably won't care. If you try to do anything at all in the way of discipline or setting yourself up as the mom, then the teen will hate you. The teen will probably hate you anyway, but the best thing to do is try to get to know the teen as a friend so that when/if you become "mom" you won't have as many troubles. Don't worry to much about the collage kids. They should be moved out, so they really don't have anything to do with the situation. Good luck!
2006-11-20 08:18:45 · answer #2 · answered by S. Elizabeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You left out a lot of info about the gender and ages of the "kids" and how often he has the teen and if the college kids live away from the home or do all three live with him. I can only guess if they are older "kids" and they don't live there, it shouldn't be much of a "problem". I'm just wondering why you are already worried about "problems" when you are only dating?
2006-11-20 08:29:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all if you are asking this then there is most likely are already some problems. you are feeling some heat from the kids and not feeling so comfortable with them. If you like this guy you need to hang in there because it is all about them getting used to you and he has to take to them as well once you get to that part that they trust you and you feel like maybe family it is hard not to think ant else. He might be a Little harden from the divorce but then again who isn't. Well do not go into a relationship thinking is there going to be problems because there is always going to be some but is it worth it
2006-11-20 08:23:17 · answer #4 · answered by isitreal1963 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter is 34, three kids, one 14, one 10, one 6 divorced for three years, never saw her hubby again. Kids never hear from him.
Meet boyfriend, 29 never been married. I asked him "what the hell are you up to with my daughter" "what do you want man, are you nutso" I told him he should have a nice Harley, a convertible with his job of eight grand a month and he wants my daughter with three kids. And, he has his own farm with rental property, cars, trucks, sno-machines and dirt bikes. I thought he was goofy.
He told me "I love your daughter, I love those kids" what could I say? they've been happy through sickness and health, I wish I had his demeanor, his feelings, he's great guy and, he handles kids better then I could and, I have five. By the way, they just had twins of his own, he's very proud of his whole family. Try it you might like it.
2006-11-20 08:25:54 · answer #5 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should try being nice to the kids get alone with them but don't try to be their friend either
you might want to get ready for the drama
2006-11-20 08:19:43 · answer #6 · answered by girly_down_n_south 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the problem that he could go running back to his ex (if he could) and lots of tantrums and if the kids are like his princesses (and girls) oh my god all his attention and game playing ??
2006-11-20 08:17:43 · answer #7 · answered by soph y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
None that I can see as long as you are honest.
2006-11-20 08:20:26 · answer #8 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
expect hell from the mother. you'll never replace her, remember that
2006-11-20 08:19:39 · answer #9 · answered by Chelsea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol his kids will probaly hate you at first.
2006-11-20 08:15:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋