2006-11-19 23:57:21 · 5 answers · asked by MICKEY M 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Jealous of other men.
2006-11-20 00:01:43 · update #1
In every case that I have saw, both men and women are jealous of each other because they are very insecure. Both should reassure the other that they do love the other. That they are not interested in anyone BUT them and MEAN it. Show them that they really do mean a lot to them. A relationship is a two way street, it is all about give and take. You don't treat the other good part of the time, you do it all the time, every chance you get. Sad but true, some people just don't ever understand how they should act toward their partner.They think just because you show them some affection here and there that is enough, wrong, show it to them all the time. Stay honest with your partner at all times, don't try to hide anything from them. You go hiding anything from them, they are going to start to wonder what else you are hiding. Jealousy is really all about being insecure.
2006-11-20 01:11:35 · answer #1 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It totally depends on the man.
For me...it took a lot of explaining to my husband (then bf) that everytime he got jealous it was ME he was disrespecting...Sometimes he would make comments or step in between me and a guy and make a big deal out of the whole situation.
In HIS mind he was somehow putting the other guy down...in his place...etc etc.
I explained MANY times that it was infact ME he was hurting...ME he was disrespecting by not trusting me enough to handle things myself....EVENTUALLY it got thru...and now when my husband is off in a corner at a bar and see's some guy hitting on me...he tells his friends "don't worry...she's got it..she can handle it herself".
Good luck ...if he really loves you, then with a lot of love and patience from YOU he will come around!! xoxoxo
2006-11-20 00:10:27 · answer #2 · answered by Shakira 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not always, My boyfriend is personally the worst but one day I got in his face and pushed him away from people and asked him if he loved me, he said that he did with all of his heart and I told him that if he did he would trust me. They say that it is the guys that they dont trust but thats a load a bull. Cause they know for a fact it takes two. Try and establish trust with him, prove to him that your his!
2006-11-20 00:01:44 · answer #3 · answered by Kat A 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Jealous of what? The neighbors new car? His buddies new HD TV? Or the guy his significant other is banging?
2006-11-20 00:00:03 · answer #4 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't give him any reason to be jealous then...too much jealousy can kill a relationship.
2006-11-20 00:53:01 · answer #5 · answered by the_memory_of_ashes 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋