Ok so me n my friend have been friends a really long time! well a few days ago I was getting jelous of her because all the guys liked her an I was throwin myself at em and they still didn't want me!! :( And a few days after that older guys (19-20) came over to her house without ne one else well ofcourse you would assume something happend but nope nothin happend....but I told everybody she had slept with em and madeout with em and when it got around to where her bf heard he was really hurt so I went to talk to him and I told him that if things didn't work out between them that I was available.....not such a good idea!! he yelled at me saying you know I love her an she loves me we're moving in together in a few yrs and you just wanna ruin it so just back off u b*tch I was so scared because I have only been yelled at a few time in my life and not by really hot guys!! niether of them will talk to me except my IM's or except my phone calls they won't except apologies wat do i do plzz help!
2006-11-19 23:45:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You need to get a grip and take a deep look at yourself! Your actions have not been very positive to say the least!
You said you were jealous, you lied about your friend, hurt people and damaged the trust you had!
I am sure you are not liking the way you have behaved and know it is time for a change.
Write a letter to your friend and her boyfriend and tell them how much you are sorry .. be very honest and ask for forgiveness.
Learn to be yourself and to make the changes within yourself so you will like you and be proud of who you are!
The truth issue will only come in time. You have to show by example that you are different. Maybe in time your friends will see that you have grown up... you have learned and are now able to be a true friend and can but any jealousy behind you
Write a letter to your friend and her boyfriend and tell them how much you are sorry .. be very honest and ask for forgiveness.
and let time heal.. it is all you can do as you can only control yourself and how you behave... Good luck with the change ... you are a better person that you know! :)
2006-11-19 23:59:35 · answer #1 · answered by truthwalker7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is with all the treachery? This is how you treat your friends? I don't think there is anything you can do to fix your relationship with your friend.
You need to figure out why you're throwing yourself at guys. Why is your self esteem so low? Being this needy is making you unattractive to everyone. Being this available is making you less desirable.
Clean up your act, get a hold of your emotions. You need to get some counseling or at least ask any friend you might have left what you can do to help yourself get a grip. Calm down and reflect. I hope your friend gives you a second chance. If she does, don't blow it this time.
2006-11-19 23:57:48 · answer #2 · answered by Firespider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry sweetheart but you screwed up. You don't send nasty rumors around like that. But trust me just because everyone likes her does not mean that you won't have your turn someday trust me. I used to think the same with with my best friends and my sisters but its not worth it to try and ruin it for them they will eventually ruin it for themselves. You will get your fair share of guys and theres someone out there for everyone just stop trying so hard and be yourself and someone will come to you. I was just like you once and i dont know how old you are but the 19-20 yr olds will come around to likeing you too trust me. My boyfriend right now is 23 and amazing. I went through the same stuff you did to find a better guy than all of the guys I was after. Keep Your Head Up and just apoligize. GOOD LUCK!!!!
2006-11-19 23:50:58 · answer #3 · answered by Kat A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her reaction could mean many things. But first you need to ask yourself, are you ready to settle down if this is the right guy? If not, then maybe you should move on. I would say what many girls say, guys come and and go, but so do friends at times. If she is your real friend she will understand and give you a chance to date this guy specially when she introduced you to him. Maybe she feels left out because you are dating him now and spending time with him more than you are with her. She could also now have realized she wants this guy for her self. Who knows what her reason is. Which ever decision you make, make it your own, follow your Instinct and make sure you are happy.
2016-05-21 22:04:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What in the world would make you do that to your friend? Maybe this is why guys won't go "after you"! I can only see one more recourse to make amends but it will be up to your friend and her boyfriend to forgive you. You must now tell everyone what you did and that you were wrong. The same people that heard the rumor must now hear the truth!
2006-11-19 23:49:44 · answer #5 · answered by Mark S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same situation but, a bit different! Anyway, that's very rude of him! And you should've not told him that! You should be happy for your friend instead! But, it's too late!
Now, all you need to do is ask for another chance! Talk to them! Beg!
Or, you can write them a letter (Use paper)! Meet them somewhere! Don't tell them it was you who wrote it! Since they don't pay attention to you anymore, they won't pay attention to your letter too! So, don't tell them that it was you who wrote it!
Wish you luck!!!!!
2006-11-20 00:01:17 · answer #6 · answered by Pawie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time dont be so stupid and try to be a better friend. you cant throw yourself at guys, they dont like that. most good guys dont like sluts. and how are you gonna tell your friends bf youd be available. i wouldnt accept your apology. i would just of think of you as a no good two timing whore with her thong shoved way too far up her a**. i would be your friend, and i wouldnt want to be. and how can you spread rumors of your supposed friend just because your jealous. there is no helping you. you need to help yourself first. dont try to beg them back either, that will just push them farther away.
2006-11-19 23:52:53 · answer #7 · answered by .......... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need advice.
I even have a problem believing your story isn't made up drivel.
Who would ever do that to a friend?
I can't imagine what you are like when you don't like someone.
Find a new environment and act normal. Life will improve.
2006-11-19 23:57:15 · answer #8 · answered by Carl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay that was really inmature on your part . it just proves that you were not really her freind and you were just after a guy. you shouldnt let guys get in the middle of you friendship. just let them cool off for awhile and then try to apoligize and tell her why you did it. and you will meet a guy when it is time for you and looks arent everything the hotest guys can be jerks
2006-11-19 23:53:05 · answer #9 · answered by yours truly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve what you get for spreading rumours. Chalk it up to a bad experience and move on. Not many people are gonna want a friend like you. With friends like you who needs enemies!
2006-11-19 23:49:48 · answer #10 · answered by party_pam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋