I have a friend, well I say friend, I mean someone I put up with, who lives in a complete fantasy world, for example he claims he is going to have a threesome and also thinks he is better at darts than me. He's always boasting about how he pulled this asian stunner the other week too, but I know the truth from his other friends, and its just not 100% true. How can I tell him to start telling the truth and to stop with his hurtful lies?
2006-11-19 23:13:18 · 10 answers · asked by Carl E 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i really don't know why would u want to do that. do u feel pissed? do u envy him? do u think u re better than him? get a life dude. what's a difference if somebody is telling lies and living in fantasy world? if they like it where exactly is here any business of yours? think of your life, not of fixing the life of others
2006-11-19 23:16:06 · answer #1 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How are his lies hurtful to you? He wants to have a three some there isnt anything wrong with having fantasies. Well have have them maybe at this age he doesnt know how to make them a reality but whats wrong with listen to a few tall tails. You ever heard about the big fish that got away most l people exaggerate at some point and time.
2006-11-19 23:55:50 · answer #2 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though she is plagued by delusions, ensuing in her having a distorted view of the international and the people round her. This usually comes approximately as a effect of feeling unappreciatedhether by utilising associates or family members, and having low self-properly worth and conceit. there is surely little you, as her chum, can definitely do. you ought to attempt taking her aside and gently speaking to her, asserting that issues are not quite how she thinks they're, and then element out her effective factors and delightful issues in her life she ought to concentration on quite of her delusions, and recommend she seeks counselling to attempt to handle her own not ordinary self image. only remember to do not call her delusional or 'loopy' at any element. besides the undeniable fact that, this attitude ought to be unfavourable on your friendship if it would not bypass properly, so possibly talk to a college nurse approximately your concerns, and enable them to look after it from there.
2016-10-22 10:04:39 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who is he hurting with his lies? Maybe he feels inadequate about himself and that's why he feels he needs to lie. Does he feel he needs to keep up with you and whats going on in your life and thats why his lying?
2006-11-19 23:38:11 · answer #4 · answered by wildspirit27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he will hurt himself with the lies one day. jus leave it.
do you really like him? do you really care for him??
if you do, i suggest u write him a letter and make sure he reads it.. if he's smart enough, he'll know he's got to change.
2006-11-19 23:50:02 · answer #5 · answered by nobodyknowsme™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is happy in his fantasy world let him be happy its better to be happy in fantasy world than to sad in the real world so love him and leave him
2006-11-19 23:17:35 · answer #6 · answered by bongu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A baseball bat usually does the trick!
2006-11-19 23:15:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
take him to see a shrink
2006-11-19 23:28:06 · answer #8 · answered by destiny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him be or he shall lie 'bout u too
2006-11-19 23:19:54 · answer #9 · answered by kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-19 23:19:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋