ok i met this guy on line like 6 months ago and he want to take me out and on are first date he wants to put a ring on my finger, and in two weeks he is movin down here like 20 mins from me and he want me to move in with him when i am ready he wants to have my kids and everything what do i do........HELP
2006-11-19 22:59:50 · 24 answers · asked by chickabad 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, you sound like you're about 15, so I'd say yes, you are.
2006-11-19 23:01:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Look whatever you do, do not go into this relationship full steam like you are talking. Look you sound very young, then you do not even know this guy, (one date and he wants to marry you). Do not even think about a commitmment at such a young age. You need to enjoy your teenage years, and then you may want to plan a career which can help you be successful. You have your future ahead of you, do not even do this, have kids and stay home all the time and get stuck in a rut. Really I have seen too many cases like the one you are talking about. Enjoy your youth and plan for a future, plan for college, or a career in the military or something. If you do this you will be so glad that you decided to do this. You cannot go wrong. You can always have a family later, but if you have chidren you will be stuck at home all the time, with little or no money.
2006-11-20 07:42:44 · answer #2 · answered by Rooster 1972 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't know how old you are but as for the person that mentioned something about 15 no your not that young to fall in love. You shouldn't be having kids but your not to you to be in love. I fell in love with a guy at that age and we're still together. He wanted the same things from me and it's hard to deal with but if you are evening questioning it even a little bit it means you are not ready. Until you are absolutely positive with no doubt in your mind that you are ready to make that kind've commitment don't. Just let him know that you want to slow down a bit. If he really cares about you and loves you than he will but if he is persistant and doesn't stop he is trying to push you into something he wants. Which will prove to everyone that online relationships don't work! Stand your ground and do what you think will benefit you and what your heart tells you to do! Good Luck
2006-11-20 07:38:40 · answer #3 · answered by Kat A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey I think you already know the answer to your question, No matter how old you are it is too Fast, it sounds like you are 'weirded' out about it in your questions, so what does your common sense tell you? This man could be anyone and you haven't even seen the 1 year hump, (where the things you first love about someone turns into the little pet peeves etc.) Its too soon for anything of the sort.
2006-11-20 07:06:32 · answer #4 · answered by Baylee_J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
On your first date he wants to put a ring on your finger...............that sounds to me like he wants to put a noose around your neck, he is weird. He has no idea who you are in person and neither do you, he wants to have kids with a stranger. I say BEWARE as there are predators who lurk and find young girls online. Young girls like to feel loved and wanted and this is a false sense of security and need he has instilled into you, once you are in his targets you will be powerless. Just be careful and don't fall for his tricks. You have freedom at the moment and I suggest you keep it that way until you meet someone you really love in person.
2006-11-20 07:10:12 · answer #5 · answered by friendly face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Chicky: you'd better wake up and smell the roses. What makes you think your that good? what are you, 14, maybe 15 it would be in your interest to call the cops and tell them what's going on with this scum bag. He's kind of rushing things, isn't he, somethings wrong here. I sure don't want to read a name in the paper of a girl being date raped through the Internet and think it's you.
Get out of this situation now, before it's to late, grow up first.
2006-11-20 07:04:55 · answer #6 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't really know him. He does sound a bit scary. If you meet him, make sure you take someone with you. Take your time. Get to really know him. A relationship takes a lot more than 6 months to develop. You sound young, you have a whole limetime ahead of you.
2006-11-20 07:22:32 · answer #7 · answered by carmieaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch out lady. That sounds a little to fast to me. I would tell him to "slow his role" so that you can get to know eachother better. Online dating is something that has proven to be very difficult b/c most ppl are not honest about who they are. If I where you I would use extreme caution, but thats just me. Good Luck and Stay Safe!
2006-11-20 07:08:35 · answer #8 · answered by J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds like he can be a stalker and an obsessive lover. Trust your instinct. If you don't feel right, then it's usually not right. Becareful of him.
2006-11-20 07:11:03 · answer #9 · answered by Renee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Weren't you aware of the risks. There are a bunch of psychos out there and if I were you I would avoid this psycho because this is exactly what he sounds like. How old is he by the way?
2006-11-20 07:03:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Careful, darlin'...my daughter got in the same situation and it turned out REALLY bad!!!!! He must have something not right if he's in that big a hurry.
2006-11-20 12:40:46 · answer #11 · answered by Fred 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋