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2006-11-19 22:15:04 · 17 answers · asked by interested 4 in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

for some of you , being homo sexual is not a mistake , i am not saying that it is a man's fault that some women trun lesbian.. so relax.. as for the argument that homosexual are born this way .. I do not agree with that , becuase of some them homosexuals that is , get to go back to be heterosexual ..so they ar enot born with it ..
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2006-11-19 22:22:10 · update #1

learning how to spell is not the issue . i am sure you are smart enough figuer out what i want to say ..

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2006-11-19 22:26:02 · update #2

17 answers

No doubt about it! If I where a chic I wouldn't hang out with me!

2006-11-19 22:17:36 · answer #1 · answered by steve 1 · 0 0

I suppose that some women do turn lesbian, yes. Those are the ones who are stupid enough to think that being a lesbian is "easier". Its not. Please believe. Think about this, 2 women, both hormonal, both sensitive, both can be very caddy, trying to have a relationship together. For real true "born lesbians" (yes, there are many of us who are born this way and have been this way since the first sexual thought we remember) it isnt an issue. But you get a straight women who is only a lesbian for the "fun of it" or because its supposedly is easier than being with a man, it tends to cause problems. So yes, back to your question, I agree that some mens attitudes towards women may cause them to want to turn lesbian, but they are the slim minority. You are whatever you are and trying to be something you are not is not going to work out in the long run.

2006-11-20 06:56:44 · answer #2 · answered by arielsalom33 4 · 0 2

Men are not the reason for women turning lesbian. Lesbians are born that way. Ladies who try lesbianism as an alternative are suffering from psychological stress as a result of the male pressures they have experienced. That is only experimental & they will find no pleasure in those relationships since they are straight.

2006-11-20 06:20:18 · answer #3 · answered by Claude 6 · 2 0

I think that I know what you mean even though it is not asked properly. It comes off a little bit offensive towards men. Some women are assaulted or abused so much by men that they can never have normal relationship with men. On the other end, some guys have been tormented by women when they were growing up or in relationship, and they turn gay. It does happen. One should never generalize.

2006-11-20 09:01:23 · answer #4 · answered by JPR D 3 · 1 0

no man's attitude, or actions towards me "turned" me lesbian. I don't hate men. I have lots of male friends. I'm simply attracted to women, not men. I wasn't abused/molested/raped. I came from a 2 parent home. I didn't know anyone gay growing up nor did I meet anyone gay until after I realized I was. I didn't have a domineering or passive parent. I had a happy childhood. nothing "influenced" my sexual orientation. I am the person God created me to be....and He created and loves us all.

2006-11-20 09:21:58 · answer #5 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 1 0

Sexual relation between a man and a woman, bearing children within the realtionship of marriage to build a family is good.
This is how we all are existing today as our parents did bear children. Lets go for the good.

A woman whose sexual orientation is to women is called lesbian. It depends on the environment the women grows up during her life to make up such attitudes. Children should be taught by parents or elders in the family to grow in a good relation to build a family.

Read the verse from the Holy Bible.
1 Corinthians 6:9
Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind,

May God bless you. In Jesus name. Amen.

2006-11-20 06:51:54 · answer #6 · answered by SSQ8 5 · 0 3

No, I think it has more to do with the decreasing numbers of men in general and is inevitable.

The birth rate of male children has gone down by more than 25% in the last 30 years, while the death rate for males has gone up substantially. The suicide rates of adolescent males, which equaled females until age 12, has jumped several times that in the last ten years. Suicide for male teens has also increased, and it was 1600% higher than females before the jump. On the job deaths for males are running 700 times that of women. Death from crime is also much higher.

Add all this up and we are looking at a significant lack of available men in another 10 years. We are already seeing this in blue collar fields which are mostly worked by men, such as sewer work. Since women refuse to do these good paying jobs which start out at $60,000, a growing amount of illegal aliens is being hired to do them. Another thing of note is while male gay establishments are going down in numbers, female gay establishments are increasing.

A while back, I asked a young African American woman why she was having children by a black male who clearly was also having children with other women at the same time? She said that is they want to have children they have to share the men. This will be happening in all segments of society until pluralistic families become the norm.

2006-11-20 06:21:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 3

I can not speak as a lesbian, but I think you may need to speak to a psychologist for more in depth thought (no one chooses, segration and non acceptance from general society and the suppression of it, usually goes for years)

2006-11-20 07:53:24 · answer #8 · answered by southernboy 4 · 2 0

Turning lesbian was not a choice for me, I have always been attracted to women, all of my life.

2006-11-21 07:52:36 · answer #9 · answered by spiritcavegrl 7 · 0 0

I'm not a woman, or a lesbian, but I think the answer to your question is "no."

Don't let any gay-rights advocates hear you say that people can "turn" gay. It will debunk their argument that gay people are "born that way." It won't make you very popular with them.

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2006-11-20 06:21:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

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