Why is it so difficult for Pakistani men, no matter their age, to grow up and act their ages? Why is it that they are incapable of communicating about anything and blame their wives for every bad thing that comes their way? Why is it they cry about Islam only when it comes to their wives making a decision on their own or when their wives are exhausted from caring for children and they can't get themselves a glass of water while standing by the sink, but don't apply Islam to the other 90% of their lives? I'm married to one, and am getting divorced from him. Why do you have this need to go to foreign lands and demand that the foreigners do as you command? Even when marrying muslim women from these lands, why can't you leave your cultural Hindu baggage at home? Why not just go back home if you want to act like you are there so badly? I was married to this "man" for 5 years, and had two children with him. IN that first year, it was great. Afterwards, he became violent and abusive.
2006-11-19 21:51:53 · 4 answers · asked by Ding Dong 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
How about the fact that I've been there a few times, and have literally seen a father walk into the room, tell his daughter she was getting married to "this man in the picture in two weeks" and then walk out without even asking her if she wanted to get married? How about they do their cultural stuff taken from India and claim it's islamic? They in no way act islamically.
2006-11-19 22:18:07 · update #1
I am sorry to hear about your experience, but I don't believe all Pakistani men behave this way. I just married one in August of this year, and he is a real sweetheart. He is very strong natured, and very true to his religion, but he treats me like a queen. You can find bad eggs in every nationality and religion.
2006-11-19 22:18:02 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 3⤊ 3⤋
wot? "your cultural Hindu baggage at home? " r u talking abt muslim men or hindu?? newayz plz dont generalize just bocz u encountered a bad egg. we can do the same after witnessing the madness of a p[erson called george bush and Tony Blair and call all Americas and Brtis warmongers....so plz refrain...
all people are different i m sure u had a bad experience but plz realize not everyone is alike and dont genralize plz....
2006-11-19 21:56:17 · answer #2 · answered by danny's mom 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Not every Muslim and esp Pakistani Muslim is as bad as u have said. bad ppl exist every where, in every religon, in every society and religon has got nothing to do with it. its just a matter of how that person is brought up. its more of nature than religon.what about ppl who have rasied hell in american school killing innocent students, they were not muslim, what about american soldiers who have abused prisoners in Iraq?, they were not muslim.
u r not even clear if u r talking about muslim or hindu, both are totally different religon and non preaches violance so dont relate ur bad natured husband with his religon.
2006-11-19 22:10:16 · answer #3 · answered by Faysall 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Eloquantly Put!
2006-11-19 21:56:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋